i'm 13 and growing u in all! but my boobs are getting big and everyone says ! i look at other most of them are small and my is like balls are in thereLOL! really my friends says did you got surgery on you bruest! i'm like no! what should do i don't know what to do!!
2007-01-23 13:20:25 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
First of all Don't Worry About It. I know that is easier said then done. I had the same thing happen to me when I was your age. I started developing at age 10. I had a small C cup by the time I was in 6th grade. The popular girls used to make fun of me daily. I talked to my mom about it finally. She told me They are just Jealous of you and if they make fun of you again or bug you about it again Just Kill Them With Kindness. I know that sounds weird but it actually works. My Mom took me to get my first bra when I was 10,but by the time I was your age I was wearing a Sports Bra. Sports Bra's give plenty of support for your breasts and are harder to see underneath clothing. As for the Adults who say Show them Off, That is not a Good Idea. I wasn't allowed to start showing mine off until High School and even then I wasn't wearing Tight or Low Cut Shirts. My suggestion is to Wear a Body Suit. It is comfortable and not to Revealing. Well I hope I helped you a little bit.
2007-01-23 14:40:48 · answer #1 · answered by ♥skiperdee1979♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I was in a "B" cup by the time I was 10. I hate to be the bearer of bad news but you are going to have to deal with crap from people from here on out. Some people will be funny, some will be rude, but there is always going to be opinions about how you look. Your friends are just teasing, I'm sure, but there are going to be some girls that are jealous and say mean things. All I can tell you is to just roll with the bad, laugh at the good and enjoy how you look in sweaters. Oh, and do yourself a favor and buy good bras. Yes, it'll cost you a little more money, but they'll make you look and feel (comfort wise) a whole lot better!
2007-01-23 13:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by Zen 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you do not want to draw attention to them however, dress your top modestly, like no super v necks. My friend who had 36 DDD's just layered tanks under her vnecks so she wouldnt sho too much and always looked cute.
If you try to hide them by standing funny, humping over, or wearing big oversized clothes it will just draw more attention or mess up your back. Realize tho that with bigger breasts, you can't wear everything those small boobied girls wear. Like little bitty strapped tank tops and etc. but believe me, it doesn't matter because having boobs is better. Our culture values boobs so be proud of everything you've got and just be confident.
Trust me, you'll be fine. And if ever your back begins to hurt from the boobies, know that the secret to being able to carry them is actually strengthen your stomach muscles instead of your back like most people believe.
Don't let any haters get you down. They're either jealous or stupid, lol.
Good luck, darling.
2007-01-23 13:33:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Everyone develops at different rates. I'm 14 and when I was only nine, my boobs started coming in when the other girls barely had any. My shirts didn't fit right anymore and I was just miserable.
But now, mine are considered normal sized! HALLELUJAH! They just need time to grow into. Flaunt 'em...be proud. The boob goddess has bestowed upon you the figure of a goddess! Lol.
2007-01-23 13:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know it's embarrassing to have bigger boobs at this age. You feel like everyone is looking at you all the time. I promise a lot of the girls who you know will catch up with you. I am shocked that some of the adults on Y answers are telling you to show them off. I bet they wouldn't tell their own child that.
2007-01-23 13:35:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
keep them packed for later, odds are when you get older they'll fit you just right. beside all the other chicks are just jealous, really they are! you'll probably get all the guys attention! It just means that your maturing and you have two beautiful trophies to show off! Ask your mom how to deal she probably went through the same deal! Make sure you get a good bra with lots of support! It will allow them to maintain the ideal shape while there growing!
2007-01-23 13:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by suprsarah 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Excellent
2016-03-14 22:54:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's time to deffinitely consider getting a bra. You need to hide the nipples from poking out and to hold them up, because if they grow too fast, they could end up saggy.
Using a bra to hold them up keeps them firm. This may not matter much to you, at your age, but when you are my age, you will be glad you wore the bra!
Nobody likes torpedos! Hehehe
Good luck and congratulations...it's just a sign you're growing up.
2007-01-23 13:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Every girl and woman develop differently when it comes to this area. What you need to do is compare them with your mom and her mom as you probably are following after them. You also need to sit down and talk to your mom about this if you can, Like many have said, the boys will all be looking at you differently with hormonal eyes so get your whips ready to fight them off.
2007-01-23 13:27:35 · answer #9 · answered by anton_29207 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Youre just growing faster than they all in a couple years they'll catch up with you. Meanwhile wear sports bras.
2007-01-23 13:23:49 · answer #10 · answered by Alila 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋