this guy has been my best friend for 2 years i actually met him thru my other friend who used to go out wit him..hes friends wit my ex but idk y he is still friends wit my ex bc he said he likes to c him in pain for some reason..but me nd my ex had gotten into a really big fight the other nite nd i finally realized i want nothin to do wit him nemore but then i find out that my best friend hates me all of sudden nd doesnt want to talk to me nemore nd idk y..i think its my exs doin bc my friend has been upset ovr his beakup a couple months ago bc he loved her..ive been tryin to help him but now he decides he wants nothin to do wit me nd i didnt do nething too deserve that i jus dont get what happened the day i broke it off w/ my x my friend was so suportive nd said my x didnt deserve me but he dont deserve someone like my friend either ..my x is makin me look like the bad guy nd makin my best friend hate me nd he wont return my calls or mesages ..how do i get him bak?
2007-01-23 12:29:40 · 8 answers · asked by jackie<3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i have told him im sorry a million times..even tho i dont kno y hes mad at me he wont tell me.my x i have feelin is tryin to piss me off nd hurt me by tellin my best friend, who lives an hour from me, a bunch of **** about me makin me look like the bad guy when i ve done nothing to him..hes my best friend i was alwaysable to count on him nd trust him nd he just out of nowhere did a total 360 on me nd wont tell me y..it hurts to kno ur best friend is ignoring u nd wont talk to u nd wont tell u wut is hapenin..i have ben doin nothin but cryin on nd off for the fact of this nd i just want him bak i just want my best friend nd confidant back
2007-01-23 12:50:52 · update #1
i am 18 nd hes 20
2007-01-23 12:52:25 · update #2
Whatever.Just confront him and ask him right out what's your problem.If he tells you,then you can get to the nitty gritty of the cause.Then deal with it.There's too many exs in the relationship
2007-01-23 12:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not knowing your ages I have to take a guess---teen agers, right??? As the letter reads--it is typical kid stuff---the drama of being your age. I don't suppose you realize that these little issues are just nature's way of helping you to learn how the world gets along and resolves things with maturity----like an adult would do it...you will need these lessons in time. Just give it time and keep your mouth shut--it probably will work itself out. It will be fine---you'll all be friends until the next disagreement comes along. My guess is someone can't see the value of keeping quiet and minding their own business. I'm sure there is a bunch of other people who will tell another version of what happened to you---just give it time and smile, start just being nice and let it go away. Good luck.
2007-01-23 12:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I well understand all the problem stems from your ex. First, solve this problem before attacking the other equation.
Just speak your mind to your ex and ask him to get out of your way. The rest will become OK by itself. I'm sure. A friend in deed is a friend in need. Don't lose confidence in yourself above all.
2007-01-30 19:10:20 · answer #3 · answered by Nandighosh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write him a letter explaining how you feel and ask him what it is that uve done that's so wrong for him to take Ur ex's side, be open and honest with him Ur ex has probably made up lies about u cos hes upset over u 2 spilting up. if that dint work then all u can do is wait till he comes to his senses and See's what Ur ex is like for himself, then its down to you whether u can forgive him and can be friends again or u might find that u can't anyway good luck Hun & i hope u get ur best friend back.
2007-01-23 12:50:23 · answer #4 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this can all be done with a simple term
just say sorry
its easy really even tho..well yeah...
just try it things dont always have to go threw the book.
2007-01-23 12:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by Im This Guy... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You send your heart word in written and appology yourself
2007-01-30 21:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by anubhav_55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love a men set him free
if he returns he is your's
if he dosen't
he was never your's
2007-01-30 00:17:29 · answer #7 · answered by v_adaniya2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, you can't force friendship
2007-01-31 09:21:51 · answer #8 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋