If u never had been in love or in a serious relationship before ur spouse can u actually say that person is ur soulmate and love of ur life
2007-01-23 12:27:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes
2007-01-23 12:29:48 · answer #1 · answered by can u ♥ moi? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soul-mates... Pfffbt!
I believe that you make a marriage work or not, and it doesn't rely on any ridiculous mysticism. Either you're both ready to enter the relationship as adults who realistically understand commitment, compromise, and self-sacrifice, or it doesn't work. All of the wishing, hoping, soul-mates, and feeling "in love" in the universe will never change this.
Point Blank.
I wish people didn't get married over bs like this, This is called setting yourself up for failure.
2007-01-23 21:06:23 · answer #2 · answered by Travis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a touchy subject, especially with religious people. I personally would not have married my wife if she hadn't been in relationships with other people first. I remember the first girl that I fell in love with. I wanted to marry her and spend the rest of my life with her. I can't even imagine what my life would've ended up like if I had gotten that wish. My advice - shop around, that way you'll know what you like.
It is like car shopping, you would be totally fascinated with a Toyota Tercel if you had never even seen a car before. But as a person who lives in a developed country, your dream car probably isn't a Tercel. Why? Because you know what's out there.
My point is that my wife and I have been with other people and we chose each other. Young innocent people who get married as teenagers and don't have much experience don't last as long. People who wait and find out what they like through trial and error have better odds.
*In no way was that supposed to offend drivers of Toyota Tercels!
2007-01-23 20:36:41 · answer #3 · answered by Bam Bam M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is a gut feeling...people can be in a hundred relationships and never find the right person...the amount of relationships doesn't matter...if you are unsure you want to spend the rest of your life with this person, then she/he might not be your soulmate
2007-01-23 21:30:34 · answer #4 · answered by cammie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! It's what you feel in your heart. Is this person your best friend? I had other insignificant relationships before I met my husband, and don't think I'd truly been in love with any of those others, but I knew right from the start that this was the man I was meant to be with. it just feel right and so comfortable.
2007-01-23 20:44:20 · answer #5 · answered by wendygirl1000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is about pragmatism and exploitation. Women want their "good provider" so they can coast through life. Men want a regular sexual outlet (how ironic that the sex is the first thing to go in most marriages). So how can anyone actually take this "soulmate" crap seriously?
2007-01-23 20:35:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As sad as it is to say, I was married to the first man I was ever involved with (got married at a young age) we stayed married for 25 years and he was never my soulmate.
2007-01-23 20:32:20 · answer #7 · answered by Sally B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there was a reason you weren't in love before you met your spouse.
2007-01-23 20:31:48 · answer #8 · answered by jaysgurl28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you can't.
Once you start living together and consequently start taking each other for granted, the equation changes. And very soon, most people end up with broken hearts.
2007-01-23 20:31:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes,
its about finding the "one"
and its a feeling.
2007-01-23 20:30:10 · answer #10 · answered by Dave ! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋