I basicallly am in love with this one girl at school and its not lust. Everytime i daydream about her and then her boyfriend comes into my daydream and i tell myself i can't be with and i laugh at myself. Well right now im listing to Far Away by nickleback and and almost crying. I have heartaches very often and i just want to be with her. I even had thoughts of suicide. I want the aches in my heart to end. But for somereason i love having that feeling. I talk to her in school sometimes. im 15. For some reason i don't want to get over her i just want to hold her and never let her go. Even though shecan't be mine i want to keep loving but it hurts alot. is this something that a teenager goes through. I think about her every second i wan't to cry but sometimes i can't. It hurts but i don't want to get over her i want to keep loving her. Why do i want to keep loving her when it hurts so much and interfering with my life ??????? Is something Wrong my brain?
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2007-01-23 12:05:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Find someone who is unattached and receptive to your affections.
You will experience this many times before you find the one you want to spend the rest of your life with.
So buckle your seat belt, you are in for a long rough ride, called "Life in the Romance Dept."
2007-01-23 12:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by Here I Am 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, there is nothing wrong with you. or your brain. If every older person told you the truth, we would say we have been in your shoes. Only time heals a broken heart. And realize too that at some point you will look back and say why was I so serious about the matter. Go on with your life, find lots of friends and spend quality time with them. You will find that you are very worthwhile and will meet someone who will steal your heart away again. Things usually work out for the best. Good luck
2007-01-23 12:16:25 · answer #2 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just how old you are. Hormones really mess with teenagers' minds and lives. Just stay away from her, I guess. The feeling will go away with time and even if you think you don't want it to, it will be better for you. Sure you probably romantic ideals about this feeling that "love hurts," but it doesn't. Pain tells you to stop doing something so just stop it... You're just a kid, live out your life, and you'll get a chance at love later.
2007-01-23 12:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong man your heart just can't let the fact go that you may never have her at all i've been in that case alot but the girl i like would rather have me dead than alive since i've been told all my life i'm no different if i was alive or dead just go on with your life buddy even if your like me and have to walk a lonely road alone i'm 17 and it's all been the same for me of what's happening to you except i don't like it i sometimes wonder if when i die if people would just laugh so ya suicide isn't the way but ya just way the lonely path man
2007-01-23 12:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by boreddude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a way the mind reacts with the anxious device to create a kind of stress once you're heart damaged. definite, alot of human beings actual do experience it interior the chest section, so do not hardship it is no longer unusual, and it is no longer purely your mind's eye. it is also no longer your heart, purely the chest section. the midsection bit is only a ascertain of speech that become advanced alongside time in the past, and human beings purely connected the feeling to the midsection.
2016-10-16 00:26:15 · answer #5 · answered by ruddie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are very young and believe me you will one day hopefully soon get over her...go do something else like get into maybe a sport that way you can put your mind on other things and forget about her...your time with love will come one day...just dont go looking for it...let love find you and you will be happy. but like i said your wayyyy young and its your age all teens go through this your not the only one ;)
2007-01-23 12:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by ღCCღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes pain is the only thing that makes you feel alive.
2007-01-23 12:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by JOURNEY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's your age.
start seeing a new girl. you will feel better in every way!!!
2007-01-23 12:10:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋