Were u suprised when you were first intimate with a guy and found out he was not circumcised? Did he ever find out it was the first like that for you? Was it any different?
2007-01-23 11:40:44 · 13 answers · asked by Kim K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
nah, it's cool. just think of him as different and exotic. there are a lot more uncircumcised guys out there than ones who are.
2007-01-23 11:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was surprised to find out that my boyfriend was not circumcised. The sex was totally normal for me but i have heard that sex can be more pleasurable for the guy if he is not circumcised. i was fine with the situation, but the only thing that grossed me out was knowing that a guys uncircumcised penis can be dirty if not cleaned on a regular basis, and can get smegma on the foreskin and penis Always make sure yur man is clean! If he doesn't clean this smegma it can smell really bad and if it hasn't been removed in a while can actually tear the skin leaving an abscess... which can lead to sexually transmitted diseases if not careful. But if you and your partner are exclusive and both been checked for std's you shouldn't have a problem there.
2007-01-23 19:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by abkb8476 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My fiancee is the first person I've been with that wasn't. Wehen I finally brought it up nearly a year later, he didn't even know one way or the other. He didn't know exactly what circumcized was and what the difference was. He didn't know that other people didn't look like that. Let's just say he didn't spend his youth staring down other boys pants. (He also doesn't have a father figure or close male family member - his grandmother raised him.)
I was a little taken aback, simply because I had never seen one "in that state."
http://www.cirp.org/pages/anat/
This website is very informative.
I seriously doubt I will circumcise my son (if I have one.)
2007-01-23 19:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by tryingmybest79 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. The sex didn't feel any different, but I felt reluctant to progress to oral sex in that situation, as his hygiene wasn't exactly perfect.
Truthfully, I didn't like it, I found it kind of off-putting, since I'm used to circumcised men. That combined with the fact that the guy was kind of flaky and pushy made the relationship a short one.
2007-01-23 19:46:09 · answer #4 · answered by Guernica 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No I wasn't surprised... they are beautiful either way... and men who are not circumsized tend to have more pleasure in many ways... I cant get into it because it is Adult... but look it up and see. Yes he knew he was the first to be that way and I told him that I wanted to experience how that made him different.. and what gave him pleasure. He loved that. Never react like you are looking at a big spider with a guy no matter what happens... if he has a green eyed monster in his pants just say.... oh wow.. how is that for you? lol
Just be nice... just like you'd want a guy to be nice to you. That kind of thing is very touchy... be respectful and nice about it.
Now if you dont like it then you have to think about what that means for you. Does that mean you cannot try it? Does that mean that you are turned off? Does that mean you do not want to be with him? If you still like him for a lover just forget about it and look into the future and how you can learn more.
2007-01-23 19:46:25 · answer #5 · answered by Miz Phoenix 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have been with one guy who wasn't circumcised, and yes it was different. I didn't like it at all. And I didn't know either, until we started. So yea, it feels different. Well it did with me anyways.
2007-01-23 19:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by Britney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi!! well i didn't felt any difference... of course the fact that he is not circumcised is a bit unhealthy, but it depend a lot on the person's hygiene
2007-01-23 19:47:26 · answer #7 · answered by Pamely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks more natural and appealing nonetheless. If god intended it to be circumcised people would be born that way. Jews and Hindus are wise people and I'm glad that you got screwed by either Jew or a Hindu.
2007-01-23 19:48:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ya i was thinking to myself what the hell do i do with this..so i was hesitant to touch it and he kinda helped me threw it he jsut said to pull the skin all the way down and there it is normal.. and it feels the same it s just when it s soft.. it doesnt look the same when its hard your good to go...
2007-01-23 19:45:08 · answer #9 · answered by hooteehoo2u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was no different and I had no reason to be surprised, if you really love the person it should make no difference.
2007-01-23 19:43:40 · answer #10 · answered by Nicole M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋