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this guy whi i just became friends with in september suddenly i stellin my friends he likes me, but he is really short. like at my armpits, and i dont like him, but i dont know if it is because he is short, or if i just dont like him, am i shallow?

2007-01-23 11:23:09 · 14 answers · asked by Athletic.Chick.29 3 in Family & Relationships Friends

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No. Just because someone likes us or is interested in us doesn't mean we have to reciprocate the feeling. If fact, it's probably more common to not be interested in everyone that is interested in us than the other way around. Just remember you don't have to be rude to him either.

2007-01-23 11:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by bfwh218 4 · 0 0

There is a difference between going out with him and just liking him. If you don't want to go out with him because he is short, you may be missing out on a really fantastic guy. You may be just looking at the appearance and will never get to know his heart. If you don't like him, why is it you don't like him? If you don't like him because he is boring, unattractive, etc. then there is nothing shallow about that, you just don't see anything in common and there is nothing wrong with that.

2007-01-23 11:30:11 · answer #2 · answered by Weasel Girl 3 · 0 0

No you're not shallow....you're tall. LOL. Attraction is a personal thing. We can't always explain why we like someone or dislike someone. In this case, his lack of vertical stature is the reason...if you don't feel comfortable dating someone that much shorter, then don't date him. It's got nothing to do with being shallow...it's got everything to do with being comfortable. That doens't mean he can't be a friend...just not a bf.

2007-01-23 11:49:24 · answer #3 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0 0

not really, every one has their own preferences does mean that we are shallow, the older you get you realise that things like how tall someone is not that important as it use to be when you were younger. if the true reason that you dont like him cause of his height. dont pretend to like him because your fear of being shallow, cause you might end up hurting him. just tell him in the nicest way that you dont like him the way he likes you.

2007-01-23 11:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by Kay 3 · 0 0

I wouldnt say your necessarily shallow. We all have our preferances. Some of us like thi people,some bigger,some with bloned hair and manicures,others with a rugged beard. The point is your not interested in him as a partner and whatever your reason its okay.

2007-01-23 11:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

if you can't truthfully put your finger on why you dislike this person, why not give him the benefit of the doubt and get to know him. You'll never know if you don't try. Fact is that most women's ideal man is taller that her, this may be the basis of your feelings.

2007-01-24 02:38:52 · answer #6 · answered by al b 5 · 0 0

yes you are....but we are all shallow in our own way so dont worry about it. Physical attraction is part of the package no one is above that

2007-01-23 11:26:18 · answer #7 · answered by Panda 3 · 0 0

Nah, we all have our preferences when it comes to people. I only consider people shallow when they take their standards to the extreme. I always reject fat girls, but that doesn't make me "shallow."

2007-01-23 11:31:56 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Reality 3 · 0 0

Yes, but everyone is, and I wouldn't date someone shorter than me either.

2007-01-23 11:26:39 · answer #9 · answered by little miss green 2 · 0 0

u r so cruel. But remember this- what goes around comes around.

2007-01-23 11:30:03 · answer #10 · answered by Tim 2 · 0 0

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