I NEED SOME HELPFUL CHEERFUL ADVICE ANYONE HAVE ANY?????
2007-01-23 11:14:33 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
*****THANKS EVEYONE FOR HELPING ME OUT******
2007-01-23 11:24:56 · update #1
Sorry no cheery answer. Life sucks, the sooner you realize this you can deal with it. Welcome to the real world. Good luck!
2007-01-23 12:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup I got some cheerful advice. GOD LOVES YOU! My life hasnt gone as I planned either because God already planned it for me, he just gives me the choices. Maybe you should do that to.(If you want to). BE HAPPY! You could talk to friends or family but, that wont make a huge difference because, life isnt always fair or smooth like most people hope. Its kind of like a rose, Its pretty and beautiful but, once in a while you hit a thorn. Hope I helped.
2007-01-23 11:26:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY I can cheer you up but first Life is funny that way and always remember just because life is giving you a bad hand get up and don't worry and move on. Like I always say life goes on and it doesn't wait on anybody. So why worry when you have friend and family that care about you and will be there for you anytime you need a shoulder to cry on or if you need a friend. SO if you want to chat more IM me anytime.
2007-01-23 11:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it never does go as planned b/c what we plan isn't what is exactly our destiny or God's plans. So many times I wanted one thing but got something completely different. All I know is that Whatever life has in store for us after all the heartache and disappointment that we have, will truly be a blessing and we will have learned how to fully appreciate it and be thankful for it.
I hope you cheer up and if that don't help you, go get some ice cream and some chocolate or something:)
2007-01-23 11:29:42 · answer #4 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you know the answer to this question already. Why stay with someone who doesn't like you? That is the bottom line. He will never get over the fact that you cheated on him and from his reaction he really doesn't like you or care about you anyway. The truth may be hard and harsh at times but it doesn't lie. You need to worry about yourself and your children. Grow up and be a grown *** woman (sorry to be so harsh but i think you need it at this point in your life). You should never attempted suicide or even think about it. What would happen to your kids if you were to succeed?? Did you think of that? you are a mom first and forever. No man is worth you harming yourself and not being with your children. they are your priority not him or MEN in general. You obviously do not love this man yourself...if you did you would not have cheated, point blank. I know it is easier said then down but MOVE on. you to are just not right for each other. It is not the end of the world and even though it may seem like there are not a lot of men out there....there are! Just think of it as him not being your SOULMATE...or your mate for the moment until your soulmate comes along. Seriously, you should love yourself first and above any man. He is so not worth your life. Like my favorite quote states, "PUT ON YOUR BIG GIRL PANIES AND DEAL WITH IT!!!" YOU WILL BE OKAY.
2016-03-28 23:22:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life very seldom goes as planned. Best thing to do is look at the good things you do have in your life and cherish them. Cheer yourself up with some pampering, give yourself a new look and look to some new ideas for what you'd like to do with your life. Immediate boost: Put on your favourite music and dance like crazy......Hope you feel better soon.
2007-01-23 11:21:54 · answer #6 · answered by salstick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's life. Life will never go as planned. For those days that don't go well, set aside some 'you' time. It can be whatever you like doing. If you have a dog, play with it for a little bit. It'll make you feel better and you're doggie and you will spend some time with each other =)
2007-01-23 11:20:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing goes as planned and the name for that is reality and life. I know that's not cheerful. So here is something cheerful look at what you have compared to people who have nothing.
2007-01-23 11:25:25 · answer #8 · answered by livvy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok hun, life almost never goes as planned. But you have to take what you are given and try to work with it. Try to do things that make you happy. For most it's walking, hanging out with friends, going rollerskating, ice skating, skateboarding, things like that. Also, remember, like the movie "FOREST GUMP" says, "LIFE IS LIKE A BOX OF CHOCOLATE, YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT YOU'RE GONNA GET!" Hopefully that put a smile on your face. I hope you have a good night and hope everything works out for you hun.
2007-01-23 11:48:16 · answer #9 · answered by Britney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well... the only advice i can give you is to not make too many plans.. i mean something can always go wrong.. take life as it comes.. with the good and the bad.. and roll with the punches.. once the worst has happened things can only look up.. so just dont take to much stock in a plan.. let things happen as they happen and ALWAYS leave room for mistakes
2007-01-23 11:23:31 · answer #10 · answered by Morgan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is full of surprises, up downs and turn arounds. Life can be such a conquest. One can plan their life, but it doesn't mean that the plan is going to go the way you planned it. As they say, that is life. Enjoy the way life has turned out. There is always a reason why life turns out the way it does.
2007-01-23 11:25:55 · answer #11 · answered by Weasel Girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋