I had sex with my friend while we were drunk 2 years ago and never told our other friend. Then a year later my two friends started dating. My other friend just found out about me and her boyfriend and is completely trying to throw our friendship away because of something that happened 2 years ago when they weren't dating.
Oh and P.S. she isn't mad at her boyfriend.
2007-01-23 11:09:33 · 9 answers · asked by Alyssa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well I mean she kinda of has a reason to be jealous i mean it should blow over. I mean put you in her shoes what would you have done? Would it of been better?
You should tell her that it was 2 yrs ago and it that he doesn't matter to you in that way.
2007-01-23 11:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has the right to be whatever she wants. She's mad because she NOW views you as a threat. It will always be in the back of her mind whether or not he prefers you over her. Sounds like she's insecure and has low self esteem. Try and talk it out otherwise the problem is hers.
2007-01-25 07:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by Jimmy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No........She does not have a right to be mad. What happened 2 years ago is not of her business. It take 2 to tangle.
Why is she mad? She did not date him and she was probably sleeping with someone at the time. Therefore, he boyfriend should be mad at her that she had sex with another guy.
She is not your truth friend my dear. She is childish,
2007-01-23 19:16:34 · answer #3 · answered by solitude 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she's mad b/c she feels she got sloppy seconds or that you just beat her to the punch or that you didn't tell her (or he didn't) about that night? In any case, she is upset you did it with him but it's in the past and you don't seem to want him so there is no reason to be jealous? And it isn't right that she just get mad at you, he should have told her before.
2007-01-23 19:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think she has a right to be mad at you!!! What happened in the past is exactly that - IN THE PAST! It's not like you are having sex with him now! Wow - tell her to get over it!
P.S. Maybe she feels threatened because he might think you are better than she is! lol
2007-01-23 19:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by coconutnoodle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, she shouldn't be mad at you. She is being immature and obviously feels threatened that the two of you were together previously. You need to reassure her that it meant nothing to you and there's no way you would ever go for her guy again.
2007-01-23 19:15:09 · answer #6 · answered by salstick 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She has no right! This was before they were going out so this shouldn't matter unless it happens again. Tell your friend to explain that to her. Plus you guys were drunk, you didn't know what was going on!
2007-01-23 20:02:31 · answer #7 · answered by Gainy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no she doesn't have the rite to be mad..she's being immature about the whole thing..i mean you were drunk...
2007-01-23 19:54:17 · answer #8 · answered by I love when emo boys make out 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
language?! if u plant bad seeds they come up
2007-01-23 23:17:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋