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please help me with this her attitudes towards me is very hurtful and it sucks bad!

2007-01-23 10:43:51 · 14 answers · asked by debsinlove 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

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I am sorry to say that about 90% do. It is a very ruff stage to get Thur.For both the child and the adult. My daughter started at about that age and it continued until she left home at the age of 18 to join the army. It was the toughest day of my life, as when we said our good bye she did not want anything to do with me. She often said mean and hateful things to me did not respect my wishes and was just down right nasty. We could not even look at each othee with out getting into a fight. Moral of the story, This too shall pass. One day Your loved one will come around and be the loving child you once knew. It is part of there growing that is not pretty a comparison could maybe be like the terrible two's
We all remember thous hard times just now they can talk and voice ther op ions. Be patient keep loving her as hard as it may be and she will turn around.

2007-01-24 07:19:09 · answer #1 · answered by mellow 2 · 0 0

Some do. My brother was like that, I was never like that. I can't tell you why he was like that - but he was very verbally abusive to my mom and there was really no reason for him to be. Could have been hormones.
BUT I will tell you that there is hope because if you never tell her that you hate her and if you continue to be positive regardless of her bad attitude, in about 5 years she will feel so guilty that she will be overly-nice to you and do anything for you. That's what happened to my bro. He realized that he did have a good mom and he is constantly doing nice things for her nowadays. He is 25 now.
Just be sure not to take it personally. I think that if you are a good mom, she doesn't mean it.

2007-01-23 10:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You need to grow a set and put your foot down with her. YOU are the parent, and no CHILD should disrespect you. Get a grip on the situation before it gets out of hand. Be consistant with your rules and discipline. Don't let her walk all over you.

2007-01-23 10:51:08 · answer #3 · answered by zinntwinnies 6 · 0 0

Depends how they are raised explain to her how she is making you feel and ask her how she would feel if the shoe was on the different foot. I had to do that with my 12 yr old stepdaughter she is constantly making me feel like ****. I sat down with her and asked her how she would feel if i did the same thing to her. I got the point across for now she has started being nicer,

2007-01-23 13:29:18 · answer #4 · answered by chiefs fan 4 · 0 0

Well your daughter may be in the wrong but you might be to just because you are the parent that dosent mean you know what is best for her sit down and talk and see what is bothering her t

2007-01-26 06:41:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

no. I don't know what to tell you because to get a "well behaved" teen you have to start when they are still a child.

Have you tried to sit with them and have them tell you what they are thinking about and not being the least bit judgemental adn then explaing your reasoning for your rules and regulations of the house? I would start there.

Good luck

2007-01-23 10:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

teenage rebellion. some go through that phase, some don't. i definately did from age 13-15, and now at 16 i have grown up and moved on.

2007-01-23 19:41:54 · answer #7 · answered by rootsyone 2 · 0 0

Not "all" 15 year olds. Just the ones who have dead beat parents who wouldn't know how to discipline a child if it slapped them in the face.

2007-01-23 16:09:14 · answer #8 · answered by Annamarie 5 · 0 0

sorry but if i would have disrespected my mom she would of spanked the sh** out of me i mean not beat me but spankings help thas why it is good to teach them early on. i know it may hurt but in the long run it may help her relieze thats why if it as me i send her to juvenile corrections as a uncontrolable child

2007-01-23 13:37:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I disrespect nearly all authority figures, but I tend to go pretty easy on daddy.

2007-01-23 13:23:31 · answer #10 · answered by Lori 5 · 0 1

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