Found email he received from woman
He had emailed her, to call him, he missed talking to her
Said he had known her before me, just friends, ran into her gave her his business card and she called him a few times, and began emailing him. He said he hadn't had any contact with her in over a year. Just liked taking to her because she is funny. No attraction. Promise to never to such a thing again. I just am having problems trusting him now. Is he cheating? Could he possibly be telling the truth.
2007-01-23 10:40:19 · 31 answers · asked by rosebud 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He could be telling the truth, but I honestly doubt it. I bet you can find calls to his cell phone she has made or, all calls received will have been deleted on his phone so you can't see.....
2007-01-23 10:43:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is certainly fishing for some strange trim on the side -- if he hasn't already dipped his wick, he is thinking about it.
The more cheaters say "it means nothing" the more it means something. The more they track contact, the more they are in contact. The more they are just freinds, the more he wants her as a lover. The more she is just funny, the more he is horny for her poonani. The more they promise to "never do it again", the more they will lie low for a few weeks and then start it up again.
You have been warned.
2007-01-23 11:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So there's already a trust issue there? Then you have enough problems. Simply tell him that his talking to her is making you very uncomfortable and you would like him to let her know that it needs to stop. If he fights you on this, that's not good. He should love and respect you enough to tell her that he's moved on from her. If he truly wants to just be friends with her, invite her over! Get to know her too and insist that they do not go out together without you. That's just how it has to be until you can trust him again.
2007-01-23 10:44:50 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Is it possible for the two of them to get together? Does the woman live close? I would be suspect. I suggest you invite her over for dinner. If he gets paranoid about it or doesn't want to do it then ask him "why not. If she is just a funny person that is a friend then why can't we all meet and be friends together:? If he is against it then he has done something.
2007-01-23 10:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with The Emperor of Ecstasy but the problems is if u watched him type email to her it's very good idea of person said it but the other bad idea is what if when u are not around ur husband he will have to email her another one and said "sorry that was my wife watching me over email" and conect her again.. i mean u never know if he would email her other one when u are not around, but however i think you should email her and said please dont email my husband, talk nicely and see what she said to u, or eilther other way is go to his email when ur husband not around u should click her email block so she cant email ur husband no more if u block her email. it's good idea... hope this help!
p.s if ur hubby not give u his password which he is cheating
2007-01-23 10:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh chri*t. The guy can't have a friend of the opposite sex without being accused of cheating? Are you saying that you don't have ANY male friends? Cuz if you do, you MUST be cheating.
Sounds like you are a little insecure.
2007-01-23 12:06:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said "never do such a thing again" so he's cheated on you before? with no trust no relationship your going to have to trust him if he's not hiding anything about it you should be OK.
2007-01-23 10:47:08 · answer #7 · answered by BROWNLYN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is cheating, I think he needs to quit e-mailing another woman, instead of you, just because "she's funny" that's no reason. If he wants comedy, have him go to a comedic website and look at jokes, etc. I would have problems trusting my husband too, if I caught him e-mailing other woman on a personal basis.
2007-01-23 10:44:38 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he didn't lie about her, promised not to do it again, that's alot more than some women get. i would keep my eyes open, and assume he is being truthful especially if there are none of the usual signs of cheating, and u would probably be able to tell.
2007-01-23 11:02:19 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont see where it is wrong to have female friends after marriage.As long as he is not keeping her from you or hiding anything about their relationship from you I don't think you have anything to worry about.For the record I am female and I can't tell my husband that he can't have female friends but there are limits.Would you like it if he told you who you can and can not be friends with? If you have worrys about it sit down with him and discuss them and why you may be feeling that way.
2007-01-23 10:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by spoiledgal85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋