I love spending time with my boyfriend ( I look forward to coming home to him after work) I like doing nice things for him, I am incredibly attracted to him. I trust him, I respect him and I care for him very much. This is a very healthy relationship where we almost seem like friends but also have sex.
All of my other relationships have been drama filled and emotionally abusing as well as jealousy because of trust issues.
So here is where my problem is arrising. I am not jealous of him and therefore feel as though I dont love him anymore. I trust him and I feel as though if he left of course I could go on. In the past I couldnt even imagine my life without those losers.
So all in all this is very different for me. I enjoy the drama free lifestyle and think that I love him.
Is it true that since I am not jealous of him I dont love him?
I want to spend my life with him but feel as though I cant. And why do I feel like I could go on (not as happy) without him in my life?
2007-01-23 10:32:54 · 3 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
WOW...are you complaining because you found something perfect and you need drama? LOL Just because you are secure doesn't mean you don't love him. Love what you have and enjoy the time together. If its the rest of your life that's FANTASTIC!!!
My congratulations to you and him!
2007-01-23 10:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by Soldier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be one of those girls who secretly likes drama and bad boys and really are bored in your relationship. You probably really do love him but you might be bored. If he created more drama you would find him more interesting.
2007-01-23 10:37:58 · answer #2 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how would it make since that if u aren't jealous of him u don't love him.......that makes no sense to me.
2007-01-23 10:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by hectik340013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋