what do you do when you found out that your twin sister was sleeping with your husband while you were away,Would you believe him when he say that he didn't know if it was you or her ?do you get a divorce right away or give him another chance even though he is a good man he has never made a mistake but the twin sister has made lots of mistakes and doesn;t feel bad about it at all
2007-01-23 10:21:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
im a twin too so i can sort of relate but believe me when i tell you that your husband is completely arrogant. If you truly love someone you should know the differences in body and how they behave towards you. Not only that but shouldn't your husband know that you were away? It doesnt really make sense. My advice would be lose the husband smack the sister who betrayed you and move on. There are plenty of people out there for you and dont worry your sister will realize in time that she was stupid and that she lost a relationship with the most special person to her. Her other half. Good luck! :)
2007-01-23 10:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by Consigliere 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't believe him. You and your sister probably have some different personality characteristics, body language, etc. that sets you apart. You didn't say whether or not they slept together more than once or was it a one-time event. If it was only the one time then maybe he did mistake her for you, if he was drunk, or she just went and crawled in bed with him late at night pretending to be you. If they slept together more than once I'm sure he knew it wasn't you. Didn't he know you were out of town? Whether or not you give him another chance is up to you. Get some counseling.
2007-01-23 10:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by StrawberryShortcake 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I'd say both are at fault, u need to break all links wid ur sis altogether & I'd say even though u r twins, ur hubby shud have recogonised, he's is ur hubby after all. may b u can giv him first & last chance, but that again depends upon how ur relationship are?
2007-01-23 12:34:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would blame them both... your sister should never have gone there and your husband should know you well enough to tell the difference between u and your sister.
leave him! once a cheat always a cheat. and cut all ties with ur sister... shes done it to u once she cud try it again.
2007-01-23 10:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you were away he would know that it wasn't you. Or else he is just plain stupid, and that's a whole other problem! He may deserve another chance, but that is up to you. What do YOU want to do?
2007-01-23 10:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by Brent 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guess you can tell which it the EVIL twin.......How Sad!!!I am a twin, and we would never do that to each other! Forgive me for saying: but are you stupid???That is just plain WRONG!!! YOUR TWIN IS SICK!!!
2007-01-23 10:30:51 · answer #6 · answered by Skinz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u want to work it out with him who are we to judge ? your sister on the other hand u need to break all ties with thats betrayal am sorry and that from your own flesh on blood ?
2007-01-23 10:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if husband get confused im gotta said im gotta blamed twin sisters because she could know better it's my husband not her.
2007-01-23 10:30:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't have a twin but he prombally did think you was her if you two look alike i wouldn't divorce him unless i was sure he didn't know he may be telling the truth if you love him let him prove it
2007-01-23 10:29:34 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No , I would never believe that sh*it ! Not at all!!
If this were true , I would quickly divorce him an
tell her she no longer has a sister!
2007-01-23 10:26:32 · answer #10 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋