im 20, im pregnant with my 3rd kid and my mom wants me to have an abortion(for my own good?) and i haven't told my husband yet. should i do this?
2007-01-23 10:20:14 · 8 answers · asked by the sun should burn out tommorow 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
don't do anything for anyone else!
tell your husband
talk it over
dont take the 'easy' way out
2007-01-23 12:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is serious situation I would not listen to my mother if she told me something like this. I would first discuss it with my husband then go from there. This is something that can not be taken lightly. And your mother should not have that kinda of power over you if you are married i'm sorry i dont mean to sound like jerk about your mom but really think about it and talk to your man.
2007-01-23 18:29:48 · answer #2 · answered by Louisa F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey I am 25 pregnant with my 3rd child also no one could tell me to abort my child its only my decision so you do what you feel is the right decision ......and your mother should stand behind you in whatever you choose ...just don't let anyone talk you into anything and good luck with your decision:)
2007-01-23 18:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by Alison_251 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not up to your mom. It's up to you and your husband. Make whatever decision is best for you and YOUR family. Also, you might want to look into some birth control, if you're not trying to get pregnant.
2007-01-23 18:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by Aaliyah & Natalie's Mommy 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if your married, then why is your mother telling you what to do? I would tell her to mind her own business, and your hubby shouldn't be to surprised that you are pregnant since you two obviouslyu weren't practicing safe sex. Tell your mom to back off and tell your man your are preggo. Good luck
2007-01-23 18:24:51 · answer #5 · answered by b&g4me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not up to your mom you have to decide what you want to do. Don't do this if it is not want you want! This should be discussed with your husband and not your mom! good-luck to you and don't do anything you don't want to do
2007-01-23 18:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by amanda B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your mother's call is it? Talk to your husband. Then do what your heart tells you.
2007-01-23 18:36:44 · answer #7 · answered by kelly24592 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what is best for YOU and your family.
Either way you could regret your decision, but really only you know you.
2007-01-23 18:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋