everytime we have sex he stops idk why but he says i have a natural gift for it, & then he doesnt follow through, we have tried everything idk what to do. please help me & maybe i am having sex wrong any ideas, how do yall have sex w/boyfriends? help me fast please thank you in advance!! :)
2007-01-23 10:08:01 · 9 answers · asked by legally_blonde_piink 3 in Health ➔ Men's Health
hi for those of you who want to know my age. i am not sure i want to say but iam older than 14.
2007-01-23 10:31:32 · update #1
older than 15.
2007-01-23 10:33:36 · update #2
i didnt say an age b/c i didnt want ne one to know but i am inexperienced i took someones advice & we had sex last night. he didnt stop but i still wonder when we were done he said "we need to get some horny ideas" anybody have any? thanks
2007-01-24 12:25:44 · update #3
wow it is hard to answer this question since its a very personal thing and imposible to explain. well first of all how old are u? becuase it might be that u r too young and still don't really know all the good skills in sex, but u cant really explain them since u develop them through expirience. also try to explain to him to try harder to pleasure u, may be it is all becuase he is too selfish in sex, had a guy like that, so i know what i m talking about. many other factors can be a reason here.
2007-01-23 10:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by Loco 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most young guys are so out of control horny that they do not care who they have sex with as long as they are having it 24 7. But as they mature they will understand that sex is not just for pleasure or there personal amusement, it has a purpose. See procreation in the Webster’s dictionary. And sex is intended to develop that special bond between two people that makes them feel whole. Young people are not yet stable and are inclined toward letting go of things quickly.. Including relationships so this is not a good time to begin having sex. And when you are having sex…point one…it should be done slow, it should be done with a real interest in pleasuring your partner...orally, with the tender caress of fingertips or soft brush like near kisses and a romantic atmosphere who was level of respect for the lady as well. Once you have both awakened the fires within one another there must be a mutual unity of mind and soul as well as body or the whole thing is about as relevant as two dogs going at it in the park. So that is why most people reserve sex for marriage. But your boyfriend is not interested in any of this ….I suspect that he is a nice guy just a little selfish and immature which is common in a boy and of course that is what he is. And that explains a lot. Also he may be having a premature climax which is not uncommon in boys either since they are new to this. Still you might want to rethink this whole SEX deal. And whatever you do use protection! And motherhood is a very real possibility so keep that in mind ..if you are not ready to care for a little special angel then maybe you should wait a few years for Mr. Stable, and Sensitive to come into your life.
2007-01-23 22:07:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stops as in has his orgasm and that's it? Stops as in loses his erection? Stops as in just quits? This is a hard question to answer without knowing what you mean.
He could be done, he could have stamina problems, he could just be really excited but doesn't want to risk getting you pregnant. You mentioned he said you had a gift for it so the latter might be the case. Talk to him, make sure you're using protection, and don't worry about your performance. The issue sounds like his (but don't call him on that, it will make it worse).
And for the record, guys don't really like "dead f*cks", so moving around is actually a good thing. Don't just lie there and take it as suggested above.
2007-01-23 18:40:18 · answer #3 · answered by desiderio 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time dont hint that your young just say "inexperienced" or something ; ) anyways His not very good.lol
an your Question is quite Complicated lol Have a look at Diff Positions or something. But sounds like his lacking the "Stamina & Endurance"
www.sex-techniques-and-positions.com
2007-01-23 19:13:46 · answer #4 · answered by Majestic Michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably gets an early climax and is saying something to lower the sensation
2007-01-23 19:09:01 · answer #5 · answered by Yafooey! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have sex with guys but if you would just lay back and let him do you, things will be better. Women should just spread em' and enjoy it. Then when he's done, get him a cold beer and start dinner. Don't forget about doing his laundry also. Good girl.
2007-01-23 18:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
he is probaly have an ejection of sperm and when that happens if u keep going it is uncofordable
2007-01-23 18:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I don't want to have sex with you and your boyfriend.
2007-01-23 18:29:11 · answer #8 · answered by Cracker 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i can tell you are underage and that's illegal and you can be thrown in juvie if you get caught. but have fun while you can. :-)
2007-01-23 18:51:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋