what should i do my best friend is ditching me for a guy and yesterday she tried to kill herself for the secound time! WHat should i do? HELP!!!!!!
2007-01-23 09:48:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sadly there is nothing you can do.
You can only change yourself you cannot change someone else.
That's reality.
2007-01-23 09:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
TELL someone your parents, her parents, pastor at your church, or counselor at school. SOMEONE needs to KNOW that your friend is suicidal!!!! What did you do yesterday when she tried to kill herself? You should have gotten her help immediately. Why is she ditching you for some lame guy that probably doesnt even care about her. It sounds like the guy has been lying and brainwashing your friends for some reason and that he might be giving your friend some sort of drugs. TRY talking to your friend and asking help from an adult who CAN DO SOMETHING about it!!! Pray for your friend as well.
2007-01-23 09:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend has serious issues. You need to tell someone like a social worker or a helpline. Just remember its not your fault that this is happening and just because you can't deal with it doesn't mean you are not a good friend. Once her life is under control agian she will understand and hopefully thank you for telling people. No guy is worth killing yourself over, even though at the moment it might seem like your whole world it isn't. Just stay by her and support her during this time, thats all you can do.
2007-01-23 09:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by Les-Lee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk with her as this is a serious issue. You need to let her know how your feeling and to let her know that by killing herself, she is not only hurting her but everyone around her.
Let her know that there are people out there, that still love and care for her. Make sure she understands that if she has a problem that, that is not the answer. Let her know that there are people out there that will listen if she needs to talk to some one.
Even though she is ditching you don't get angry with her and that will just make her worse, stick by her cause she is your best friend. Maybe talk to her boyfriend and let him know what is going on and see if he will help you in letting her know that she is loved by so many wonderful people.
2007-01-23 11:50:37 · answer #4 · answered by princess_kimnus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People attempt suicide for 2 reasons only, to kill themselves or to get attention. If they're attempting it a second time, it is to get attention unless of course they totally botched the first attempt. But when it's a third go, it is attention only! Because even the most useless person can't stuff it up twice!
2007-01-23 09:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her parents ASAP...who cares if you friendship goes down the tubes...YOU SAVED HER LIFE..and thats the ONLY thing that matters...at least you did something..but she had a reason to do it...one is suicide and the other is for attention...so tell ANYONE just as long as her parents know...she needs some help...have her talk to a phsyciatrist...anything to stop her from trying to kill herself
2007-01-23 10:16:41 · answer #6 · answered by I love when emo boys make out 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's doing it for attention. One time my friend lied on the middle of the street and then jumped in front of a car. Tell her she's being real weird lately and you feel for her and that you are worried maybe she'll sympathize
2007-01-23 09:50:55 · answer #7 · answered by babycrystal12195 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU CAN DO SOMETHING, DONT LISTEN TO PPL WHO SAY THERE IS NOTHING U CAN DO, YOU CAN SAVE A LIFE U ARE HERE FOR A REASON, TO SAVE HER LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!11
call 1-800-suicide
she NEEDS HELP and if u dont do something and she dies u will feel terrible TELL every adult call her parents tell your mother and father and the councelor, i know u might not want to but she can seriously be dying now and they dont know it CALL SOME TELL SOMEONE NOWWWWWWWWWW
2007-01-23 09:56:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her rents if your friendship goes down the drain u should still feel happy U SAVED HER LIFE!
2007-01-23 10:13:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to call for some help for her,NOW . Regardless if she down plays this situation. You need to contact anyone/someone that can help her . You owe it to her and to yourself. You don't want her death on your conscious and heart. Good luck
2007-01-23 09:57:18 · answer #10 · answered by Family S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Professional medical help.
2007-01-23 09:51:08 · answer #11 · answered by Freck 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋