would you have not gotten married to or dated that person?? what's your biggest regret?
2007-01-23 09:21:25 · 24 answers · asked by Mary S 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
If I `d been asked that question a few years ago , or even less , I probably answered I would change some things , or even a single moment that changed my life . But now , after I really knew God`s wisdom , and the marvelous plan he had on me , and probably on many others , I wouldn`t say that . Yes , there were painful points into my life , and disappointments , and regrets , but all of them were turning me to a purpose , and all of them guided me to where I am now . I don`t know if God`s will was all those things not to happen , and the mistakes were entirely mine .
I don`t know if it was either . All I know is if He really wanted not to put me into these ,He probably wouldn`t do it . So , I decided not to look back , and put the guilt on me or anyone else , but to look on who I am today , and which I fulfiled by His help . And this is more than I ever dreamed of .
2007-01-23 10:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by Florina R . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have REGRETS, but I can't say I would change anything, because it would have affected how my life is NOW.
I would not have dated my ex if I could still have what I have now. He was a liar, a cheater, a user, and I really cared about him. It really destroyed me when he used me repeatedly, then kicked me to the curb. I developed severe depression, and it's hard for me to do anything now.
But I got great things out of him leaving me. I got closer relationships with my friends, I got the most adorable kitten in the world who cheers me up and makes my life worth living, and I have a new wonderful guy in my life :D I'd do it all again just to get those things back.
Otherwise, I would have done more in high school. More clubs, more activities, more sports, even I'm no good... Just to make the most of it, just to enjoy it and live it and not regret a second of it.
2007-01-23 09:35:27 · answer #2 · answered by Little Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would not change a thing. Life... good, bad and ugly has taught me many lessons. I would not trade in those lessons for anything. My life has made me the lady I am today. I'm really proud of how far I have come. I try to live right. Live each day to the fullest and treat people the way I would want to be treated. That way I have no regrets.
2007-01-23 09:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course nearly everyone would, if they say that they wouldn't they would be lying. First off i would go back and not slack off in school so much, make different friends. Never quit sports, and i would be sitting right now as a legend everyone makes mistakes which they regret, Everyone regrets mistakes that later tthey wish to fix but i'd be a time machines first customer for sure.
2007-01-23 09:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by Why and How did we get here : | 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when looking back on your life its easy to say you would have done things diffrently if realised. but what you got to realise is that a slight change could have changed your life around compleatly. so before saying id have married this person instead or. i wish i dated this person. think am i happy with where my life is now and where it looks to be leaving couse if you are then y change? if you had slept with that girl on that night along time ago anything could have happend. you could now be a tramp and what diffrence would it have made? experience her.
things that happen in life affect the future so before you change the past judge the present for if its good or bad. if bad think y. if gd dont bloody change the past for you will end up worse of.
2007-01-23 09:31:55 · answer #5 · answered by joey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can`t change anything in your life, even the smallest think done differently could have massive repercussions, the tinyest change made years ago could result in you having a totally different life, your you could wind up dead or something.
wish I had saved some more money though, but i had some dam good times spending it on beers
2007-01-23 09:30:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't change anything because then it wouldn't be my life. I have some regrets, but I did learn from them. Life is, you live and learn and make the very best you can of it.
2007-01-23 09:48:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if i could re-live my life, I wouldn't want to change anything because I feel like I have learned from every event in my life. So whether I had good or bad experience, they are like lessons to me. So why would I want to change?
2007-01-23 09:29:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send myself a note where I won t sign up for a credit card ... I ll pay that off until I'm dead. Take another course in a Vo-tech school , failed miserably in some classes.Made a fool of myself going to prom with no date -don t show up .
2007-01-23 09:27:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would change everything. Have another go at life, and see if I could make it as good and fun as the one I've got.
I would love to know if I did everything different I would end up the same, maybe better? Where do I queue for another go?
2007-01-23 09:55:07 · answer #10 · answered by Simon E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋