her to wake me at 5.30am this morning. Not wanting to be the first to break the silence (and LOSE!!), i wrote a note saying "please wake me at 5.30am" and i left it on her bedside cabinet. I woke up this morning and to my horror saw that it was 9.10am. I was just about to go downstairs and confront her as to why she never woke me when i spotted a note on my bedside cabinet which read " its 5.30am. Wake up"
Was this fair?
2007-01-23 09:11:14 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think so..you were both being childish
2007-01-23 09:15:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Yes, as you said yourself you were too stuborn to end the fight yourself and verbally request that your wife wake you. How 'bout learning from this experience instead of looking for a winner. I used to be like that and found I was more miserable than anything even if I was "right" So I decided its better to be happy than right. And you may want to invest in an alarm clock....
2007-01-23 09:20:11 · answer #2 · answered by firecracker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it was fair. And, kinda funny too. Listen this is a good chance to blow it off. Tell her it made you laugh, and your sorry about last night. She should soften up. Use your charm you sly dog and get her back for this a year or two down the line when she least expects it ;-)
2007-01-23 09:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely fair. If you needed to be woken up you could have set any of a multitude of alarms (alarm clock, ipod, cell phone, website alarm on a computer, etc.). If you knew that you needed her to do you a Favor then you should have manned up and talked to her. She was completely and utterly justified for you not taking responsibility for yourself.
2007-01-23 09:18:53 · answer #4 · answered by kodiackgazer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously whatever you were getting up for she was gaining nothing from eg if it was working overtime and you were giving her extra money. That would have made a difference to most of us. Good on her!
2007-01-23 09:25:25 · answer #5 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes thats funny just laugh it off that shows u how childish it is for both of you to sulk when you do that over a period of time you will build a wall between each other that is hard to tear down.It sounds cheesy but its true don't sulk talk about it.
2007-01-23 09:23:02 · answer #6 · answered by samwise25 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it wasn't fair, but it was funny, I think you got the point. It was your pride that kept you from requesting that you be woke up. What's good for the goose is good for the gander....
2007-01-23 09:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by á?¦à®?á?¦ Mo á?¦à®?á?¦ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes! so fair. although when my fiance gets ready for work (offshore) i pack his bags and stuff....i would soooooo do the same thing if he pissed me off. ur a big boy. invest in an alarm clock. im sure you have a cell phone w/ one.
thats hilarious. you should take her out to dinner tonight to appologize for being a dick before.
2007-01-23 09:16:51 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHAHA I'm so so sorry to hear you got up late but that is the funniest **** I have every heard! WERE you wrong? did you deserve it!? because if so then its fair. If you needed her to do you a favor you should have opened up your mouth and asked!
2007-01-23 09:18:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably not fair but you should have just asked her to get you up don't you have your own alarm clock. You should be responsible for getting ure self up. My fiance and i both have our own alarm clocks because we get up at different times. Suggestion you should probably invest in one.
2007-01-23 11:05:49 · answer #10 · answered by chiefs fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah and thats way funny she needs an award.I wish i would have thought of that one my self. SHE IS A WINNER! I LOVE HER That was ROCKIN made my entire day. get over it tell her your SORRY. and go on with life. WhAT would happen if the note said your wife died in her sleep?
2007-01-23 09:16:07 · answer #11 · answered by swimmyfishy 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋