"When your not looking for love, that's when you find it"
Just wondering what your opinion is.
(Because I haven't been looking, and I still haven't found squat!) ;)
2007-01-23 09:09:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This proved true for me, but I am sure it isn't true for all.
I think the logic behind it is to stop focusing on finding someone else and start focusing on finding yourself. In the process of doing that you become a better person and more attractive inside and out. Cheesy I know, but that is my opinion :)
2007-01-23 09:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by dai_nite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
by your editorial comment of "i haven't been looking and i still haven't found squat", i do not believe you have given up on looking for love.
you will truly stop looking for it when a chunk of time has passed and a man sparks an interest in you and the feeling is mutual. then you realize, geesh, i haven't been looking.
get involved in other parts of your life - read a book, visit with friends, go to movies with friends, find a hobby, something to occupy your time and thoughts regarding a person of the opposite sex and is this mister right.
the saying is true, but only learned through experience.
2007-01-23 23:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by gypsysoul52 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think that's true at all. In fact I think the reverse is true: you find it because you look.
I think what this saying is really getting after is that fact that a person who is desperate to "find someone" is going to have a hard time of it. But it's not because the person is looking; it's his misery that's the problem. If you're happy with your single life and would be happy staying single, but you go out and look anyway because you'd prefer to be in a relationship . . . you'll probably find one.
2007-01-23 17:20:56 · answer #3 · answered by Helen W. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that saying has some truth to it!! I met might my Husband at a Grocery store when Ieast expected it. I was in college and thinking about joining the Air Force before I met him. So I was really in for a shocker. After 3 weeks of dating, we got engaged then married 6 months after, all in one year!!!!! Now, here I am 4 years later, happily married and with one beautiful boy!!!! I'm living proof that it's true and it can happen to you. Don't get discouraged and for now enjoy life for it may happen when you least expect it!!!!! Good Luck!!!!
2007-01-23 17:23:44 · answer #4 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe it is true, I wasn't looking, actually I wasn't even interested when I found the Love of my Life....
2007-01-23 17:29:05 · answer #5 · answered by á?¦à®?á?¦ Mo á?¦à®?á?¦ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's true. When you least expect it the love of your life will come along. Probably in the most unlikely way.
2007-01-23 17:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it could be and couldnt be bc if u r desperate all the guys u go after will be jerks and u will scare them off lol but if u saty cool go out with frineds look good just be yourself thin maby the dasy will come youll find that guy who will pop up thats what i think
2007-01-23 17:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to agree with you. I'm not looking and haven't found it. Of course, to be honest, unless it's labelled as "LOVE" and is really obvious, I'm not going to notice.
2007-01-23 17:17:54 · answer #8 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in that saying. It's brought me a good man. He's older and alright looking. But I care for him alot.
2007-01-23 17:14:56 · answer #9 · answered by Mami-Chula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate that saying!!
The only way I've ever found anything besides my own toes was to get out there and look for it.
2007-01-23 17:14:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋