Okay, so basically my issue is that I don't know if I'm pregnant or not and I think I might just be parranoid but I'm not sure.
The situation is that a few weeks back, before my boyfriend and I had sex so here's how it goes. We had genital contact, but he did not go inside of me, nor did he come that I know of on me...but I have been having some constipation now (3ish weeks from that) and sore/tender breasts. We also had sex the first time about 3 days ago, but I really don't think I would be pregnant from that because I wouldn't feel those symptoms yet, and we used condoms, and he pulled out before he came in the condom.
Now I don't know if I am just being paranoid or if I really am pregnant, or if its just because I'm supposed to (if I am not pregnant) get my period in a few days or what. Should I wait a few days to see if I get my period, or just tell him what is on my mind and get a pregnancy test? Am I just over-reacting?
2007-01-23 09:01:58 · 27 answers · asked by Barbiiee 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I am also noticing that I have a few bumps now on my areola (area around the nipple) and im not sure if I just never noticed before, or what.
Ahhhhh so confused!
2007-01-23 09:07:22 · update #1
Yes, I know I shouldn't have had sex. At least I was trying to be safe about it, with the condom and pulling out. I don't need any lectures right now because I know, I just really need the advise to sooth my conscience. Thanks to everytone though.
2007-01-23 09:10:15 · update #2
Well, your situation is pretty tough, but if you ask me, your not pregnant. If your in shape, and have been moving around, you won't have your period for a while. I say just to ease your curiosity, that you should get a pregnancy test, and don't tell your parents about this, trust me, it gets messy. I had a freind that got pregnant at the age of 13! It was a disaster, but she managed to pull out of it. And if you are pregnant, make sure to tell your boyfreind's mom first, or if not the case, your boyfreind. Let your mom be the last one to know, unless of course you have a good relationship with her, she should be the first one to know. Well hopefully I helped you, and if you have any further questions, I would be happy to help you, and happy to help you go through this.. bye.
2007-01-23 09:12:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you were so paranoid the first time, then why did you have sex with him again? I would just take a test and make sure that you aren't pregnant. do you really want to have a baby at 15 and be another satistic? I'm sure you're still in highschool, maybe a freshman or sophomore. do you really want to have a one year old when you are graduating from highschool? use condoms. use birthcontrol if you are going to be that young and have sex. I'm tired of paying for these teen mothers who are on welfare because they can't control their urges!
2007-01-23 17:08:56 · answer #2 · answered by stretchskeleton10 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You might just be over reacting. It sounds like you are doing the safe sex thing which is good. Because your prob stressed about this, your period might be a few days late. Relax wait until its time for your period. If you dont get it then wait a week before you take a test or anything.
2007-01-23 17:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by angel01182 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The chances of you being pregnant are VERY slim. Good job on being safe though! I think you are over-reacting to the pregnancy situation, but having been constipated and with sore breasts, there could be another medical issue here. I suggest going to your doctor and finding out what that might be.
Keep being safe in the future! Also: if condoms are 99% effective and birth control is 99% effective, imagine how effective they are if you use them together ; ) !
2007-01-23 17:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by bpbjess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 16 years old and i've been in your situation. I know how hard it is because you don't know and its soo stressful. I think that its really easy to over-react i know that i did. That's all i thought about for at least 3 weeks. but i really do think that you'll be fine. If you are really worried then go and get a test but i would just wait till and see if you get your period. That's what i did and i ended up being fine and i'm sure you will be too! Good Luck!
2007-01-23 17:33:49 · answer #5 · answered by Kate B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unless he leaked some pre-ejaculent while you two were haveing genital contact....it is hard to get pregnant this way, but it is possible. Sounds like you are most likely just being paranoid though. You can take a pregnancy test about 2 weeks after your genital contact for peace of mind.
2007-01-23 17:09:54 · answer #6 · answered by cancer4228 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably a bit paranoid with the fact that you had sex and are not regretting it. Sometimes genital contact can make you pregnant. Because it has happened and it does't neccecarily neeed to go inside of you to get you pregnant. You should buy a pregnancy test. They are often accurate.
2007-01-23 17:26:42 · answer #7 · answered by ☺Lisa☺ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you having sex at your age? Why are you playing Russian Roulette with your life? Sex is for responsible ADULTS not children!!! If you and your boyfriend had any kind of unprotected genital contact it would be possible that you are pregnant! Unless you are prepared to care for an infant who needs 24 hour around the clock care, I would not be taking chances and having sex! Get a pregnancy test soon! If you are pregnant, you will have to tell your parents. I would hope that they taught you that sex for an immature girl can ruin her life and dreams! Do the right thing and wait till you can make good decisions to have sex! That would be when you are an adult who can support an infant and married! It is very desirable the child would have two parents! This would be a man mature enough to handle the responsibility of being a father. One who would not run off on his skateboard! God bless you and lead you on the right path in life!
2007-01-23 17:13:45 · answer #8 · answered by Marie 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
This is your wake-up call. You need to get on some birth control... condoms aren't enough. But I'm glad to hear you're using them.
Do you really want to be worried that you're pregnant every time you have sex? It will make sex more fun if you're not always freaking out about your chances of getting pregnant.
From what you have explained.... I don't think you're pregnant, unless you weren't using the condom correctly.
2007-01-23 17:08:42 · answer #9 · answered by naenae0011 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok no you are not pregnant unless you are spose to have the next miracle conception baby. Constipated drink more water less dick and you will get your period its why your breasts hurt get on the pill or the shot and you wont have to worry about this if you keep having sex and secondly DO NOT tell him unless you want him to leave you guys that age dont want to hear that crap unless there is a chance he really got you pregnant so either get protected on your side or dont have sex
2007-01-23 17:11:17 · answer #10 · answered by sexy b 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋