I have a small package and I think that my wife is being nice by telling me not to worry, but I can tell form the expression on her face that I'm leaving A LOT to be desired. What can I do to make things more enjoyable for her? Any suggestions?
2007-01-23 09:00:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Lots of oral or get her a sex buddy. Not trying to be mean just honest. You guys need to know that it really is NOT about the size but how well you use it. If you had a wife that was so tight that you couldn't get it in, or so large that you had to strap on a board to keep from falling in, would you want her to feel bad? Learn to work with what you have.
2007-01-23 09:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by sexyladyinak 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Invest in "The Joy of Sex" and the "Kama Sutra" books; sex is more than penetration. Learn the fine art of great foreplay, as well as make love to her brain, heart and soul. Women love romantic candlelit dinners (that they don't have to clean up after!), flowers "just because", a clean house (that you clean up in nothing but an apron and a smile!)...that sort of thing. Also, CALM DOWN!! It sounds like you're also dealing with performance anxiety; give yourself a break. All penises are not the same, and that's not necessarily a bad thing. Learn how to go beyond below the waist; you might discover that could be great for the both of you. Good luck and God bless.
2007-01-23 17:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by soulguide70788 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tie her up, play with her, tease her, drive her absolutely wild that she will be begging you to finish her off. Keep her on edge for 30 min, 45 min, 60 so on and so forth. Make her beg for your small package.
2007-01-23 17:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women are different from men, its not about just the physical satisfaction are you emotionally satisfying here. Even guys with big packages don't satisfy women, you have hands, fingers, much tounge, your entire body let to us it. Surf online and buy a couple of toys and then use them on her.
2007-01-23 17:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is not how big it is pal it is all in how you use it:) My husband sure knows how to use his very well lol... I love it! They also sell things at local adult bookstores or on line that can help you enhance it as well and some pills can help it grow. Talk to your wife and see if she wants it bigger... I dont want my husbands any bigger... It is plenty big enough for me lol! I love it when he does oral on me too... Drives me crazy and i also love my toys like orgasm beads that he buys me and vibrators are fun too... We have lots of fun and like to try new things and spice it up! They also sell flavor for her to have fun and tasty fun when giving you oral as well and it tastes so good to me when i do this to and for my husband... he loves it when i do lol and it tastes soooo very good eheheheheh... I can really enjoy doing this now as i used to hate doing it but now it tastes so good and i swallow for him at times too! Make it fun and tasty for your wife and she will love it and love you for it!
2007-01-23 17:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oral...get this book...The Ultimate Kiss. And study like it's finals!
2007-01-23 17:04:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
take your wife to eat at a nice place maybe go to a hotel
2007-01-23 17:07:05 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lots or ORAL and get good at it. make sure she is taken care of first then you go to town.
2007-01-23 17:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by remailer000 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would think she would be QUITE happy if you let her finish first! She should then be more sensitive and tight.
2007-01-23 17:06:15 · answer #9 · answered by ♦♦pixiechix♦♦ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
by past experience that I had with an Ex-hubby...
get her worked up and off by other means.
2007-01-23 17:04:41 · answer #10 · answered by mcdermond3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋