I hate when people stop over without calling me first....why do people do that?
2007-01-23 08:54:45 · 4 answers · asked by Amandy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes, is very rude and Kramer is the only person I know that could actually get away with it.
I just don't answer the door even though it is obvious I am home. This usually works as a big fat clue that a call in advance is appreciated...but not always. One person walked around to the back sliding glass door when I didn't answer the front door and saw me talking on the phone...waited there staring till I opened the door and then had the nerve to ask if I was busy! Some people are just oblivious.
2007-01-23 09:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by dai_nite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone who does no longer appreciate your limitations isn't a pal. you isn't dropping something in case you lose someone like that out of your existence. you're meant to be a pal, no longer a doormat. Lay down your limitations, kindly yet firmly. "i appreciate having you over, yet i want you to call first and make advantageous that is a great time. regrettably, I do often times produce different household initiatives that are perfect dealt with with out visitors vacationing. and that i'd truly truly our cases mutually to be uninterrupted through different issues, so that you'll be able to truly appreciate each and each others' corporation. in case you come back over with out asking first, and it is no longer a great time, i'm afraid you may have come each and each of ways over for no longer something. i'd hate to waste a at the same time as like that". Then, you go away the ball in her courtroom. it is the way you hit upon out how a lot she truly cares for and respects you. If she will't manage this, you're more suitable off with out her. straightforward.
2016-10-16 00:14:36 · answer #2 · answered by filonuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, my best friend always did that when I was younger. She lived right next door and didn't feel the need to call before stopping by. It's always when you've just woken up or gotten outta the shower, doesn't it seem?
2007-01-23 09:03:37 · answer #3 · answered by melissa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Especially if you have family over..Then you have to explain to them too lol..
2007-01-23 09:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋