Ok there is this really cute boy at my school...he's in 9th grade and I'm in 7th...well anyways I have a cousin in 8th and she's SO much prettier than I am, she is really mean to me and I try my best to be nice, I never say ANYTHING to her and anyways this cousin of mine likes this boy to and he likes her again! (this has happend many many other times) and now they are going out and i just wanna go up to her and beat the crap out of her....but i'm really shy so it's not so easy for me to even say anything mean to anyone! Please I really like this boy so can some one please give me some answers on what to do???!
2007-01-23 08:41:24 · 6 answers · asked by ~*Shanno Bannano*~ 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
If she is mean to you, just ignore it and try to get him to look at you. Also, wear trendy stuff and maybe he will decide that he wants you rather than her. Or you could do sabatoge her, but.... Also, if he was mean or sumtin, then just focus on guys your age.
2007-01-23 08:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by posing as me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmmm
i really don't know wat to do cause it is kinda in the notorious girl handbook ... nawt ti ever steal a guy from a friend unless u 2 r enemies....... but family r u sure u wanna go there?!?!?!?!?!? do u think of the consequences???????
but if u r sure about taking this kinda risk then i can help u...... as long as u follow the following rules u might b able to snag the guy......
1. ask yrself if he really is worth it.
2. r u sure now?.
3. if u r u should go out and buy yr self a couple of cute and sexy but nawt slutty oufits......
4. done?
5. then go 2 Sephora and ask teh make - up artist there to help u put 2gether a goddess like look.
6.Now ..... this may b the hard part... but this can pick up a guy's interest like this*snap*... WALK PAST HIM SLOWLY ... AND WALK WITH YR HIPS BUT NAWT TO MUCH ... LIKE A SEXY SAUTER.... NEVER LOOK AT HIM.... THEN STOP A COUPLE OF FEET PAST HIM AND PULL OUT YR COMPACT TO SEE IF HE WAZ CHECKING U OUT.....BUT PRETEND TO B CHECKING YR MAKE-UP
7. if he waz ignore him for the rest of the day.....
8.then the next day... causally ask him if he knows where something is or if he can lend u something... if he looks @ u in surprise... tell him that u r his girl friend's cousin and that irt would mean ah-lot 2 u if he had an extra_________ to lend u...... if it doesn't work put on yr best ... i'm really lost and i need yr help look ...aka the sad puppy eyes.......4 sure it should work
* note* 3-5should b done on the weekend without yr cousin knowing
9. talk 2 him everyday and make him come to u...... u don't have 2 play h2g( hard 2 get) but u can......
10. after a few dayz of hallway passing u could try to talk 2 him... plan a friend to bumpinto his back... while yr friend is aplogizing and he is tured awzy... run away... stay close so hide b-hind a pole or something... if he looks around for u then that means that he is into u........if he doesn't and just shrugs..... then u could consider getting a hawter 10th grader or 9th grader to help u out by pretending 2 b yr boy friend.... walk past him a coupla times
this could result in a number of wayz.......
a) yr cousin suddenly dumps him in front of everyone and he feels bad.... yr cousin then shots forward and tries to snag yr fake bf..... @ this point u can comfort him. compliment him and make sure u say things that will make him think more of u
b) nothing happens
c) he gets wildly jelous and stomps over to take u awway( very unlikely)
d) he tells u congrats on yr new bf
e) he doesn't even remember u
if d) waz 2 happen u could ( next day) have a loud break-up and make him comfort u ... then steal him away.... which can b considered foul play, mean, unfairness, and bitchyness
all in all u could end up with nothang... but that usually doesn't happen,,,,,,,,
i hope u snag teh guy, Stay Gorgeous,
Lollie
ps. i'll cross my fingers 4 u !!!!!!
2007-01-23 16:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Lollie ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hang around his locker and drop your books when he comes besides you. if he helps you pick them up then start talking to him. Start out by saying thank you. Maybe complement his outfit. You will be surprised how not so many words can become a conversation. By being nice he might discover that you are prettier on the inside than your cousin. Anyway chances are he will lose interest in your cousin a month tops. then he would available for the perfect girl. Remember if your shy take baby steps on your conversations. GOOD LUCK!:-)
2007-01-23 17:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself
STICK UP FOR WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN
wear clothes from the mall
be more confident
try out for a popular sport at your skewl
tell your cuz u like him and then tell him or pass a note to him
find a guy youre age
even hotter than that 9th grader so youre cuz gets jealous lolz
2007-01-23 16:49:51 · answer #4 · answered by roxy101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mess with your cousin. A ninth grader prob. wouldn't go out with you anyway, considering you're shy. Be nice to your cousin, you're family.
Find a guy your age that she wouldn't want.
2007-01-23 16:50:35 · answer #5 · answered by A.P. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing anyone can do really, because your cousin already has him......sorry
2007-01-23 16:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by kaylee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋