well i luv my frnds a lot whether its a girl or a boy but my heart n mind doesnt wanna except d type of luv tht a girl n a boy does,i dunno y?n mostly when sm1 talks of sex n all i feel very disgusting n uneasy.So how do i help myself in these condition?
2007-01-23 07:54:23 · 10 answers · asked by krishna b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
how old are you? Are you raised in a family that doesn't want to show thier emotiion? When i was in my teenage, I felt disgusting about my friends' talking sex. I didn't like it at all. I even thought they were disgusting. But when I get older, my opinion change. I may not like talking about sex over my lunch. but some do. So just try to understand them and accept who they are.
You maybe afraid to love someone because you are afraid to get hurt. So you love someone but you want to deny it to yourself. That happens to some young people. You can talk to someone or adults that you can trust. They will help you out. I suggest you don't carry this emotion with you for the rest of your life. It's not healty. It can have some serious impact on your relationship with the ones that you love and that truely love you.
2007-01-23 08:10:02 · answer #1 · answered by cal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is beautiful and natural and is a Gift from God. However, it should be reserved until marriage.
Having a healthy thought process about sex is very important (at the right time). You'll need to seek counseling to find out why your view of sex is "disgusting" and why you feel "uneasy" Make sure you do this as soon as possible because you'll want to grow up with a healthy view of sex prior to marriage.
If your friends are engaging in premarital sex or sexual acts that are inappropriate, then you may feel uneasy because you feel uncomfortable with their behavior.
2007-01-23 16:15:59 · answer #2 · answered by 247 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about why you feel so uncomfortable...usually it because you have limited experience with these issues. That's okay...life experiences will teach you about what happens when someone gets into a emotional or intimate relationship with someone. You have to be mature emotionally and know what you want as a person in life.... No rush...just learn about the issues, read book, magazine articles or talk to someone that your close with regarding this subject. Good Luck.
2007-01-24 03:49:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like ur my reflection...lookin at ur name i guess ur n indian...lol..its the views that have been incorporated in u that makes u feel its disgusting...plus its quite natural....its just that either ur fed up of being in relationships or ur nt ready for the same...give urslf some time....sex talks grosses every decent girl out...u r absolutely normal..dont think bout it...u can be a good frnd...but beware..not everyone thinks like u..they may mistake ur unconditional love as 'love'.(ya know what i mean)..so be careful...but enjoy urslf...
2007-01-23 17:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by close_in_destroy_everything 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-23 16:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by Nishchay A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay for you to enjoying being single. It may not seem like it by the way others around you act but it's okay! In time you'll find someone until then don't worry about it your fine.
2007-01-23 16:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by m cheryl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to do the same wat u r over here u ll get very nice result, trust me i hv a experience.
but start like an uninterested part of study; cause those knowledge sharing with friend is essential for all nobody can do this with parent those knowledge will help you yourself / others (may be relative / friends) in future.
2007-01-26 11:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you. If you are very young you will have a diffrent outlook as you grow older. You ndont have to worry .
2007-01-24 03:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by anand_e_j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not rush your self for something you do not want.Believe me you will be very happy after marriage.Do not listen to modern society girls.
2007-01-23 21:48:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not a bad feeling! maybe latter on will involve in it!
2007-01-23 17:12:12 · answer #10 · answered by ZK431 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋