My friend is a divorcee, she has sole care of her lovely 8 year old daughter. She works part time but money is tight. As you can imagine she doesnt get much time to herself and so very rarely socialises. She would dearly love to meet the man of her dreams but doesnt know where to start looking. Any suggestions please? She trully deserves a bit of fun and laughter again. We live in a quiet seaside town in North Norfolk and there is very little to do as a single girl.
2007-01-23 07:35:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
DEFINITELY DONT DO THE INTERNET DATE IS NOT GOOD , TRY GOING OUT, WALKING IN THE PARK AT LUNCH TIME OR SOMETHING THAT BRINGS HER OUT THE USUAL****
2007-01-23 07:45:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I'm kind of in the same situation but I haven't got any kids. I think I may possibly have given up looking. I live in Manchester and there's loads to do here but I don't go out much cos I'd rather go out with someone than my mates all the time.
I guess the best answer I can give you is check out a dating site. You have to be careful cos some of them accept pictures of nude people and I find that extremely distasteful.
I worked in Lowestoft a while ago and made trips into Norfolk and it's a beautiful part of the country, surely she'll find someone. I hope so. Good luck.
2007-01-23 07:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by Missing Link 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Luck to her- It was 3 years before I met anyone and I had stopped looking and was concentrating on myself-and along came this hottie on a motorcycle and reved it next to me- I pulled off the freeway and met the cutest lifegaurd/marine in Southern CAlifornia (and believe me I was raised by strict, church going family-I went to work and had to lay down I was sick to my stomache- I gave him my business card and we talked for 2 wks before we went to dinner ( I didn't tell him my office was my bedroom of my parents home! ) I am still a freelance artist and we've been married for 20 years! I would have NEVER thought I'd meet my spouse that way- the jeweler we got rings from said he had a couple in that met on an escalater in a mall- he jumped the divider to ride up with her and asked to carry her bag (it held 1 nail polish) so tell her not to give up- there are divorced and single clubs that do activities together all over here. Camping , BBQs and such. We have friends that met on an online dating (legit) service- I kind of feel that they are out there looking for you and you will find each other!
2007-01-23 07:50:46 · answer #3 · answered by ARTmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My love life was extremely active when I used to work as a Barmaid!! Me and my best friend both met our now husbands working behind the bar
It's a bit of extra cash and a social life rolled into one. I'd recommend a local bar rather than a noisy chain pub - you don't get as much opportunity to talk to and get to know the customers.
Hope this helps
2007-01-23 07:46:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Couldnt she enrol in a evening course at college? There are a lot of free short courses around and even the ones that you pay for dont have to be too expensive.Or maybe she could get a bar job, then even if she only works one night, she is being paid for it and she gets to meet people,so its a bit of a social event too,
2007-01-24 22:50:41 · answer #5 · answered by bevalou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 00:09:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no supermarket for finding love, it happens when you least expect it, and usually when you are least able to do anything about it.
Unfortunately, the love will also not come knocking at your door. It's also true that when you give up looking, and just be your exceptional fantastic self, the guys just come running
2007-01-23 08:02:28 · answer #7 · answered by Simon E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Local pub. Take her there for a bar snack- game of pool etc. It's a nice way to make friends. Choose a nice pub that allows children in and doesn't have too many p*ss heads.
2007-01-26 23:11:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before she can find the one, she has to be the one.
So, I suggest that she simply develop a full and interesting life, without "needing" to find a man to complete her.
She needs to be complete before she goes looking for a man.
And she needs to find a man who is complete to be her man.
People should compliment one another, not complete one another.
Marriage is too hard for incomplete people to attempt it.
She should do things she likes, be places where the kinds of men she is looking for go.
If she wants an outdoors guy, then she and her daughter might take up hiking, camping, hunting or fishing.
If she wants a guy that likes the arts, then she needs to visit museums and galleries.
If she wants a guy who believes in God, then she needs to be in church when the doors are open.
But more importantly, she has to be the one before she can find the one.
2007-01-23 07:42:58 · answer #9 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She could try an online dating service. Or something like yahoo singles. Then she wouldn't have to go out to a place to meet jerks.
2007-01-23 07:44:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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