2007-01-23 07:26:36 · 37 answers · asked by simply_ch0c0late 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
let all these people say whatever, but deep inside i know i would be hurt and sad. i would feel betrayed. yes he is my soon to be ex for a reason, but he is still married to me, and at one point he loved me the way he loves her now. sorry i am emotional. i would get over it without a doubt, but i won't say i wouldn't be hurt!
2007-01-23 07:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well apparently he was dating prior to the divorce anyways so why are you surprised?? Be glad your done with the drama and find a man who can love and respect you an ur relationship. The mistress will soon see why you didn't put up such a fight to keep em. Its always funny when the mistress goes from romantic dinners and weekend trips to washing his dirty dras..I say good luck!!
2007-01-23 07:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by Kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would explain why he's your soon to be ex-husband. I would figure this mistress came into play as part of the seperation to begin with so I wouldn't be surprised. But I'd have a darn good lawyer and take him for all I could get. hehe
2007-01-23 07:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by w8n4u_2007 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you, it's never easy to face divorce and especially when your partner has gone on to another woman. The best thing you can do for yourself is get over him any way you can; go out, join a gym take night classes, start a hobby and date date date. You do not want to be absorbed and bitter and stuck on what he is or is not doing. Let them have each other and you will surely find happiness with someone else.
2007-01-23 07:36:07 · answer #4 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd probably be mad, but, I would have already been mad he had a mistress to begin with. Let it go, sweetie after all he's getting someone with no morals and she's getting a cheating liar. It's a match made in heaven. You're lucky to have it behind you now.
2007-01-23 07:45:35 · answer #5 · answered by mjm52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't care. My ex-husband moved in with his mistress after he split up with me - so what? Once he's an ex, he can do whatever tickles his fancy. I've got my own life to worry about.
2007-01-23 07:34:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's your soon to be ex, who cares. Obviously you are divorcing for a reason so why worry about it at all. You are going to have a lot of your own adjusting to things as a newly single person. Don't add the extra stress to yourself by worrying about what he's doing.
2007-01-23 07:35:10 · answer #7 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming that he is your soon to be ex husband because he had a mistress... are you surprised that he is now dating her in the open? What did you think would happen?
I would be hurt and pissed off, but not surprised.
I would also be glad that we were divorcing.
2007-01-23 07:33:57 · answer #8 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It would hurt, yes. But, sadly that's how most men deal with pain of a breakup. They immediately jump in to new relationships.
Most women tend to deal with their pain by "dealing with their pain." And letting pain subside some before they take anymore risks.
The saddest part is, those that get involved before the pain ends, is that they take their "baggage" in to the new relationship, thus setting themselves up to be hurt all over again.
2007-01-23 07:36:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will hurt for a While. But let it go. The same way she got him.
he will do the same with someone else against her. He has done you a favor by letting you know he was not the one to spend a life time with. move on at your own pace. Just do not be his pie face any more.
2007-01-23 07:33:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋