my husband left us me and my two kids and now he want to come back home
2007-01-23 07:22:19 · 13 answers · asked by babi_face_e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i agree with dardar, my exhusband left me 3 times, the last time he left we had a 2 month old daughter, since i had taken him back 2 other times, he thought it was gonna be smooth sailing, lol. not. he even got mad and said that i should be BEGGING him to take him back. that was the final flipping straw. it will only be a cycle that you cant break, not only that, think about your children, do you want them in that kind of environment, of mistrust and always being tense? bring out the divorce papers
divorced and loving it
2007-01-23 08:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by MARY M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You left a whole lot out here for anyone to completely judge him or you rightfully.
And if you do take him back, what steps were taking so history doesn't repeat it's self here?
If you truly love one another and feel there is a chance to rebuild your broken home what steps are you guys willing to take to make it better.
To ensure this doesn't happen again.
Family counselling may be a start as you are a family.
You need to all work on this marriage or it will be a no go marriage.
Only a marriage in hell.
What are your goals in this marriage and what are you willing to sacrifice?
Be fair to yourself, husband and most of all the family unit.
Good Luck
Sandra
2007-01-23 07:44:26 · answer #2 · answered by Bluelady... 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of them do. They think the grass is greener on the other side. In when they get there they realize that it's not so greener. But if YOU decided to take him back always which your back. You never no when he going to do it again. I allowed my husband to come back he only stood for a month in left again. Then he said he was sorry again in he's never going to leave he came back for other month in left again. This went on for a good while. In this last time he did it. I really though he was going to stay because he stood home for 4months this time. In one day after 4months he did it again. This time I was not allowing him to come back. The games were over. I moved on. Anyways just be careful. If you take him back that don't mean your doing wrong. It just means your trying to fix your marriage in putting your family back together. In I believe that's a wonder-full thing. All am saying in telling you what happen to me is to let you no some men will do that. Try that back in forth like my husband did. But I got tried. In if your husband leave again and again. You also will get tried of it. Just a few weeks ago my husband tried to come back again. This time, there was no more this time him coming back. We separated and am filing for a divorce. read ten stupid things couple to to mess up their lives by Dr. Laura C. Schlessinger
2007-01-23 07:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You left out alot so its hard to answer this question but going to try and give you the best advise I can.since he still is your husband you can let him move back but put stipulations on his moving back in.You have to have some kind of ground rules.You want him back?And don't say just for the kids.Make a decision that affects everyone here.so try and see the big picture.
2007-01-23 07:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by Smiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that question. Do you still love him? Does he REALLY love you? Those are very important things to consider before you let him come back. Maybe you should make him date you all over again.
Start fresh and make a new relationship.
Good luck to you!
2007-01-23 07:39:41 · answer #5 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on why he left? Was he a cheater? It's always better to have a complete family, but if he left you for another woman, if you allow him to come back, it has to be with strict rules (counseling, kiss your butt, etc.)
2007-01-23 07:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by downinmn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before he came back home I would make sure you all go to family counseling. He can not just walk back in as if nothing happened.
2007-01-23 07:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by lynda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He left you did it make you feel happy if not send him backing get child support the children should not suffer.
2007-01-23 08:01:07 · answer #8 · answered by RANDALL 5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like whatever he had planned didn't work out and you are his meal ticket home. If you take him back, expect more bad things to follow.
2007-01-23 07:25:43 · answer #9 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
heck no not after he left you and your kid's but it depend's if you still love him and want to try again and if its the first time he left you unless he's cheated then i would divorce him
2007-01-23 07:34:01 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋