For over a month now - I've been having a physical relationship with my boss at work.
I know all the wrong things about it - Its simply part of my life now.
Its 2 or 3 times a week at the office - its exciting - and honestly the best part about going to work.
I could not handle the guilt any longer - and last week confessed everything to my husband.
After the anger...and tears....and us deciding to go to counseling - we ended up having the best sex ever.
My husband was an entirley diffferent lover - and it was incredible for BOTH of us.
We still plan on going to counseling, eventually - but for now my husband wants me to continue foolling around with my boss.
Its given US such a spark.
I'm no longer sneaking around - I tell my husband everything - I share sexy emails and leters I get from my boss - its crazy - but exciting.
As long as my hudband is not being hurt - and he wants it to continue - should i?
Do other spouses "know" and approve of an affair?
Thanks.
2007-01-23 07:19:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
fyi...my husband and I do love each other very much. If he told me to quit, or stop things today...I would
2007-01-23 07:20:26 · update #1
That's just the start of things. Soon you and your husband are going to have 3 some's in so on. Sooner or later you doing the boss is going to be old. You going to need/want different.My hubby wants a 3 some he has fantasy with me and a other female in him. I believe him when he says he won't do it unless I agree.I been thinking about it. Anyways if you and your husband has agree to it. That's great. You pass the strange am trying to get over. So have fun.
2007-01-23 07:35:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
regardless of it grow to be no you are able to truly understand. i understand that maximum people who've affairs is probably no longer for the intercourse, that's fro how the different man or woman makes them experience approximately themselves. a guy that feels unappreciated or criticized at living house by skill of his spouse is susceptible for any woman who will pay him some interest and aspects admiration and understand. this would not supply an excuse for having an affair it purely explains it. curiously you took him returned with out first engaged on why he had the affair. those are motives you the two could desire to artwork on. He won't be able to easily assume for you the two to proceed as though no longer something has got here approximately. maximum adult males who've sturdy will in direction of their spouse (sturdy intentions) do no longer purely sometime and awaken finding out to have an affair. issues ensue interior the marriage that motives a breakdown. have faith me, in case you and your husband have been in music with one yet another the affair does no longer have got here approximately interior the 1st place. In maximum affairs the reason being emotional even whilst there is intercourse in touch. Now of course there are adult males that are merely jerks and stay existence for self gratification purely. you will be the single to appreciate terrific what style of guy your husband is. i'm hoping you the two make a determination on getting marital counseling to get the relationship between you the two on better floor so as that the bond would be so great that no you would be able to have the skill to come again between you the two. sturdy luck hun and take care.
2016-11-26 21:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by fuchser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get it. Although a very unique situation I understand your husband. One of the dirty little secrets in a mans life is our tendency toward promiscuity. It is often a mans fantasy to "share" his wife or see her be with another and or both. back east I have a friend who regularly shares his wife and they both love it. She gets multiple partners, some times at once and he's there watching every moment. It's probably a lot better than porn too. I wish you both luck and stay the course with the counseling I think it's a Good idea.
2007-01-23 07:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by Add Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having been on the receiving end of infidelity, the only reason I am with my wife now is because of kids. Had there been no kids in the picture I would not have gone to counseling to heal any rifts caused by her infidelity. I've since forgiven her but will never forget it .. Approve ?? Jesus people are stupid. Not on your life. If you want your marriage to survive I'd suggest you change employers.. You are right it's crazy and so are you.
2007-01-23 07:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Admitted my affair to my husband -?
2014-12-18 16:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really strange..but if you are telling the truth..i still think you should stop..right now it might be exciting..but later on something will happen, either with your boss, or your husband. and it will cause a lot of problems. and since the guy your fooling around with is your boss, that's even worse...you could loose your job and husband in the end.
2007-01-23 07:25:25 · answer #6 · answered by ~ Ruchira~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's called an open marriage, and it's not a new concept! If you two are honest and there's no emotional attachment to the other fella and hubby's okay with it........ go for it. He may want the same option though.
2007-01-23 07:27:25 · answer #7 · answered by open_phunguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just freakin' messed up. There are plenty of ways to spice up your sex life without cheating . . . . but don't be surprised is your husband finds a little on the side too!
2007-01-23 07:25:09 · answer #8 · answered by lady_blu_iz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boys Volleyball?
2016-08-05 01:06:39 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue only if you want to get divorced. At this point you do not have a true marriage due to your infidelity. Either forget the boss and work on your marriage or face long term consequences.
2007-01-23 07:25:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋