Been happily married 16 yrs and i love giving hubby oral but he has never given me oral..This has never been a problem and it never has bothered me cause he still totally satifies me when we make love but i just wanted to know if there are other men out there like this and please dont say anything negitive,unkind,rude or ignorant about him cause he is a good man and a wonderful husband
2007-01-23 07:12:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yea maybe my husband would be comfortable too i dont know but i dont push the subject cause like i said when we make love i get totally satisfied
2007-01-23 07:38:41 · update #1
I meant uncomfortable
2007-01-23 07:39:51 · update #2
I think this is a subject you should ask your husband, not a bunch of strangers, who might lie to you or give you garbage as an answer. talk to him.. after 16 years of marriage you should beable to find out.
2007-01-23 07:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by lynda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband LOVES to give me oral. He does me more often that I do him. It is a great experience, I think you should tell your hubby what you want. Maybe, he is insecure because he has never do it, and doesn't want to be bad as it. I bet if he ever does do it, he will like it too! Just be encouraging, and if there is something you don't like or would like better, wait until later to tell him, not while he's done there.
2007-01-23 15:17:52 · answer #2 · answered by lady_blu_iz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my husband is like this, he's not comfortable doing it, and I don't push it. I figured, if this was the ONLY thing I had to give up to be married to a wonderful guy, I would do so gladly.
2007-01-23 15:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex-husband would not even entertain the idea of giving me oral sex....The guy I am with now, is such a generous lover and the first time he gave me oral, I thought I had died and gone to heaven lol!!
2007-01-23 15:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem with my significant other..she won't go down on me. I just asked a question about it in fact. Why don't you ask him in a casual setting so it's not awkward? He may be more open to the idea than you think.
2007-01-23 15:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by jrawls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband was a little akward about it...but i showed him what i like, and what i don't..and now he likes to go down south. maybe your husband needs a lil' help from you? you could tell him you'd like to try oral, and tell him what feels good etc.. he could end up enjoying it.
good luck
2007-01-23 15:28:22 · answer #6 · answered by ~ Ruchira~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married for 12 years and my husband never did either. He said women were "gross". Needless to say, I think he's gay.
2007-01-23 15:17:17 · answer #7 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys don't go south of the border and some guys do.
2007-01-23 15:17:04 · answer #8 · answered by Sonny E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put some whip cream or chocolate on it...He'll get the Idea
2007-01-27 14:55:41 · answer #9 · answered by ragesteen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of guys out there who don't do it. And then there are men that think only about that, god bless them!!! If you really wnat it ask your husband. it's only fair he reciprocates
2007-01-23 15:19:26 · answer #10 · answered by jaws1013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋