I justtt got into a huge fight with my best friends and they said they never wanna hangout wit me again for no ******* reason, i have an eating disorder & no friends to talk to.I for the first time today felt like dying. how do i get through this.i hate it.
2007-01-23 07:08:48 · 18 answers · asked by anastasia l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
High school was absolutely positively the worst phase of my life. People, caught up so much with themselves, treat everyone like dirt there, including their friends. For decent people, just trying to get by, it can be a very lonely and unrewarding time of life.
When you finish high school, more and more your fortune will depend not on how you look or what you do in your free time but more on the person you truly are. People will reward you based on merit more than popularity (though to a degree that does persist), and you will meet people who share common interests, not just who share the same zip code.
I suggest you find someone to talk to. The girl's town national hotline might do the trick, or a trusted adult of no blood relation. Try to get involved in something that isn't a school-related function that you do enjoy. If all else fails, you can message me anytime. I understand how you feel.
2007-01-23 07:15:47 · answer #1 · answered by Fergi the Great 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fights hurt and so does being different. I do not know you but i really do not want yo do die:(
I took two years off HS by taking the Equivalency Test!
If you could get out sooner would you feel better?
Oh also, there are college courses you can take while IN High School. Its called duel credit.They have nicer people there that are more grown up and smarter. I bet you would make a lot of friends in one of those classes,like nursing,radio broadcasting,humanities, and 29 others.I did that and got out of the stupid HS mix .
If you can't wait beg mom for an art? karate? Horseback lessons? After school and meet other different people and right now too.
HUGS i care HUGS
2007-01-23 07:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by ashlan_02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all those arnt real friends, because a real friend would still talk to you. But then again it depends on why you got into a fight. If it was something really immature, or you have heard an arguement or fight like that before, then just find some new friends. You may not want to, but you need some friends to make you happy or just someone to talk to. Not about your problems, but juat about anything. and the eating disorder thing, you should talk to someone about it. Like your parents. I know that will be hard but life is hard. dont tell so called "friends", because you dont know if they will spread it more than it has already been spread. (if it has) Hope I helped, even the least bit.
2007-01-23 07:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by inkysunsets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HS has never changed. It has always sucked. Now, you will survive this horrible time. And you will become smarter and wiser and older. Your job in all this is to survive HS. And survive it well. Take good care of yourself. Make yourself wiser. Make sure you are always improving your body and mind. And then you just wait. It will take ten years from the time you graduate. And you WILL graduate HS in order to accomplish what I will tell you. Make sure you are very marvelous in ten years. Trust me. I have already gone through this part; so I know. Then go back to your high school reunion. They will have already passed the best parts of their lives. They will be used up, old, tired, and not attractive. They will either be divorced or living with husbands that are true losers. They will have reached their level in life. And there you will be; fan-f*ckin*tastic!
Just hold on through this mess right now. Hon, get real help for the eating disorder, then take care of your body extra well. Hold on. Trust me. It is hell right now. But it will be sooooo good when you go back. Just make sure you have made something of yourself and your life. Don't settle for any guy. Don't end up in a crappy job. Be someone. Work as hard as you can. And do it. Do it not just for you, but do it for everyone who ever was you and me in HS. That is the best way to go. I did it. And I know this is really the best feeling in the world, going back and seeing those losers and knowing that HS was the best they could ever be.
Sweetie, I am pulling for you. I know you can be ok. ((((((very big hug))))))))
2007-01-23 09:22:04 · answer #4 · answered by the witch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the people you know now in hs are not going to be in your life in about ten years. Here's what to do. Concentrate on your grades and have a plan for college. You will more than likely establish long lasting friendships in college and come out with agreat career at the end of it. If you happen to run into anyone you knew from hs they will more than likely have forgotten about the bs you went through back then. You will be proud to have made it through college and have something to show for all the hard work you put into hs and college. Screw all the little retards you go to school with. hs relationships mean nothing in the grand scheme of things. Real friends will come later on down road of life.
2007-01-23 07:18:32 · answer #5 · answered by paco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop griping about what you don't have. Be presentable to someone. Your Friends, only wanna be around Happiness, and the feeling of enjoying Life. You have too many issues. And it's gotten tobother anyone that gets around you. Good Luck on Controlling your Disorder. But don't expect your Friends, to come down with you. Start Loving Life. it's wonderful, if you give it a chance.
2007-01-23 07:14:48 · answer #6 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend.......get it together! It is not the end of the frigging world! Yes you have a few issues but it's not like it can't be handled. Prioritize! Your health 1st! School 2nd! Friends 3rd! Girl you'll look back on this sh!t 10 years from now and laugh your @ss off! Don't sweat the madness sweetie! Sometimes it just feels like the world is a pile of sh!t in 500 degree temperature and we're just drowning in it! Be we're not really :~)
2007-01-23 07:16:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 21:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... high school does suck. Thankfully it only lasts for four years (it seems like a long time but it isn't in the bigger picture).
Get treatment for your eating disorder... talk to your parents and go to the doctor. maybe your friends are just trying some tough love.
2007-01-23 07:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
High school is never really as bad as you think it is while going there. Once you're out and on your own you'll think differently. If no one wants to be around you then so be it. You're in school for a purpose and it's not for friends. Do your work, get good grades and make them envy you from the depths of their hearts.
2007-01-23 07:14:38 · answer #10 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋