she is now a house wife with a child. but still i cant forget her. but i dont want to disturb her life now.
2007-01-23 06:54:23 · 11 answers · asked by Vimal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is so difficult to make yourself go on when another person takes and important decision---like the one to end a relationship---out of your hands. I think sometimes that it isn't so much that we are miserable to not have the relationship any more, although that can hurt, but more that it is the fact that we didn't get to choose, that someone else totally chose a path that isn't the one we wanted. The best thing you can do now is to try to make yourself replace the part of your life that you spent with her with something else productive----go out with friends, make yourself do something interesting, and don't go around the places that you used to go with her. If you can rid yourself of things that remind you of her so much, that would be good for a while. Take yourself out of some of the misery by trying to help other---nothing makes us more thankful for what we DO have, than seeing others who need help more than we do....and it will give you a good feeling about yourself as well. I wish you the best, and hope that you will make your future a bright one---someone else is out there waiting for you, I am sure.
2007-01-23 07:05:40 · answer #1 · answered by hot_italian_empress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man o man...
Did you ever wonder how your parents who put so much of effort in rasing a child would feel without their son. Life took your girlfriend apart from you and you are taking a son apart from his parents. And at this point of time you are being so selfish, so mean. All you are thinking about is yourself. Damn...
Buddy... understand the fact that she's gone out of your life. You have your own life. It's moving on. You keep regreting over losing her, someday you will find yourself lagging far behind in your life. That day you will regret for life. And trust me buddy, that would be a more painful feeling as that day you will say to yourself, "Just for one girl, I forgot myself, my parents, my friends... Just because I wanted to have her in my life, but look... now I have none..."
Don't let yourself down. Life always gives a second chance. If you fail again then the third, then fourth and so on... It's upto you how quickly you bounce back from your failures a prepare yourself to grab another opportunity. The more time you take to bounce back, the lesser the chances of the opportunities life can offer you.
:-)
2007-01-24 07:20:52 · answer #2 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well Vimal y dont u make urself a busy guy wid sm serious n iteresting work which'll make ur mind convert 2wards it n wont let u feel lonely n idle.As far as i m concerned it'll help u out more in going 2wards a new life where u'll find a lot of peace in ur mind as well as in ur soul.So try it.Look this is how life goes on,Love is not tht staying with each other makes more deep but leaving apart also love becomes more strong n eternal,so let her life go on like tht if she's happy n u also change urs as time never remains d same.Thn u c how d life becomes beautiful.....think over it n then take ur step....BYE N TAKE CARE.
2007-01-23 16:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by krishna b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way you can get over someone is by thinking all the bad things they done to you forgiveing them forgetting them and find someone else i will be honest with you all your past relationships will always be there you will actually never get over anyone of them you will always have thoughts of each one and the only thing you can do is learn from your mistakes and move on one day you will indeed find the right person and when you do none of your past relationships will ever bother you again even though they are in the back of the mind whatever you do don't dwell on your past relationships cause you will emotionally and physically break down and the only thing your gonna wanna do after that is end your own life and noone needs that for themselves because god is the only one who can determine whether or not each and every one of us dies so don't take that from him and move on the best you can trust me bro find someone else and move on its the best thing for you and her.
2007-01-23 15:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by pifftasigg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love her then it is hard to forget her and u probally never will forget her. You need to become friends with her and that way you wont' distub her life or either you be satisfied knowing she is happy where she now( if she is ) and if not then she will have great friend in life to shead tears with.
2007-01-23 15:06:13 · answer #5 · answered by sonia s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Keep her memory close to heart and far from hands reach.
Treasure what you both had together, I hopes that someday you meet an other to take the pain away.
What was will always be close to the heart,
So far away but loved so dear.
Be happy that she is happy, if it was meant to be she will find her way back to you.
Sandra
2007-01-23 19:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by Bluelady... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ur love is true. u love her and dont want to disturb her married life. i slute ur love.
be her friend always. if she know ur feeling she give u the best idiea.
in my opinion cahnge ur mind and go near ur famil, think about ur careear and life that is in front of u.
2007-01-24 00:09:14 · answer #7 · answered by dharminder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but you need to just find a way to forget about her
2007-01-23 14:58:38 · answer #8 · answered by cowgrl3611 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh pls move on and don;t tell me that ur going die without her life go on no matter what and live your life to it fully
2007-01-23 15:01:24 · answer #9 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
control yourself don,t see back. ignore past and get a good future
2007-01-23 19:39:16 · answer #10 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋