im 29 and feels times running out for me to achieve my goals and sort my life out, if u read my past questions youll see type probs i have
2007-01-23 06:37:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Don't focus on all of your problems because all you will continue to generate are more problems.
Start looking at the things you do have that other people would love to have, like a roof over your head, access to the internet to people world wide, food to eat, music to listen to and the freedom you have to head down any direction life takes you.
Age means nothing because people are accomplishing more in their later years as Regis, Tina Turner & Larry King. You are not yet 30 and you are not even half way through life God-willing. Start picking yourself up off the floor, because you are putting yourself there. Take responsibility for your self and don't think that having a girlfriend is going to solve your problems, it usually can create and add more confusion to your life at this point and time.
Look for God, read the bible, be thankful. You could be fighting for your life in Iraq!
Count your blessing and start exercising - forget drugs motivate yourself because you have the power to do it, if you choose!
2007-01-23 06:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by TVStar! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
29 is young, you're not running out of time for anything. You should sort out your issues before you think about getting a gf and a life, etc. Talk to a doctor about your issues and see if they can help either with medication or therapy. Just focus on one thing at a time. First, get past your issues. Next, start looking for a girlfriend by signing up at an online personal's service. As they said in the movie 'What About Bob' - take baby steps.
2007-01-23 06:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello there,
I read couple of your questions, you think you are delusional? My advice is that should should look for the cues in your environment about which you are sure to be real. Look at how you perceive them and how other people percieve such things, anything really. Are people paranoid about the same things as you and is it justified?
Do people percieve external stimuli like you and is their reaction rational? Are yours rational?
About you personality, being dependent on your mother a lot. Is it her or you that want it that way? Could she let you "fly away" at some point or is she always worried that you can´t make it on your own? The thing is, the more you let her be around the more she will see that she needs to be there. You should start doing those chores yourself !
I study psychology if you need more advice you can write me, if i can be of any help...
2007-01-23 06:50:52 · answer #3 · answered by Coexistence 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You got some issues, man. It's all in your head, though, you know that? If you keep seeing the glass as half empty, you're never gonna get anywhere. How many people would give half their lives to be 29 again? Your time runs out when you die, anytime before that, you can achieve whatever you put your mind into.
2007-01-23 06:46:16 · answer #4 · answered by guicho79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..don't make them an everyday thing ....worry about them one minute and then the next take some time out for you and only you and maybe someone else...but make sure not to bring the problems in with that someone that you want to see or hang out with...b/c you already have your drama of your own...get out and maybe get something to eat...go dancing...something that will not effect your money situations or problems that you already have...everyone every once in a while has to have time for themselves...I have alot of stuff I worry about and do during my day of life..but that is life is al about...you just have to make time & effort for the things that you want to achieve in life and success..
2007-01-23 06:52:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start doing things for the better, like volunteering more. You will meet nice people, do things of interest to you, learn new skills and better your community. This should make you feel good about yourself which is important when seeking a gf. http://www.volunteermatch.org
2007-01-23 06:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By reading the sign, Exit, this way.
and follow your instincts,
or ask a warrior of the light to fight for you.
Neither is a trick answer.
I am the fighter, recognising a fighter in you.
I have been there, and this is the way out.
2007-01-23 07:35:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say just give up. move to thailand and live in the red light district, paying for sex forever and working at McThaiDonalds or whatever they got over there
2007-01-23 06:40:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you will get what ever you want step by step.First
look for a girlfriend , other things will come later.
good luck
2007-01-23 06:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to put your self out there and try new things thats what life is all about. be your self and you have to pick the goals that are more impotent to you
2007-01-23 06:43:15 · answer #10 · answered by erod 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋