since setting up his yahoo 360 he spends all his time online, ignoring me and my daughter- what can I do?
2007-01-23 06:24:22 · 12 answers · asked by Bushbaby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know how you feel .I am in the exact same situation but my partner is having an affair with the x box !! lol
I don't know but I have said its me or the x box give him an ultimatum.
2007-01-23 11:24:24 · answer #1 · answered by tallie18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long is he on the site for? Does he help with looking after the baby? The only way that a relationship can work is to talk to one another, otherwise what is the point when neither of you know what the other is doing, thinking! You have to tell him that you would like him to come off the computer and discuss how he is feeling. Quite often after the birth of a child, a man can feel pushed aside as the baby takes up most of your time. It's not a bed of roses, as you probably already know and there must have been a lot of changes in your day to day life. It can't be easy having a new baby and it takes two to look after the baby, otherwise you will wear yourself out. Tell him he needs to share in the baby's welfare but also try and make time for just the two of you, weather you get a baby sitter in or when baby is asleep, to reassure your man and for yourself. Remember why you are together in the first place, before baby came along and try to do some of the things you both enjoyed before the birth. Good luck!
2007-01-24 06:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by gypsy girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi i would tell him, and then if he still ignores you then sell the computer or put a password on that only you know. At the end of the day at least hes not off some where cheating on you or down the pubs
2007-01-23 06:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that what he is doing is very insensitive. Cause even if the computer crashes or the net shuts down you and your daughter will be there. He should be there for you two not so indulged in the net.
2007-01-23 06:35:28 · answer #4 · answered by Bruce W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Refuse to do anything for him. When he complains about hunger/lack of clothes/lack of sex. Ask his Internet community to provide since he obviously prefers them.
2007-01-23 06:28:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get a Yahoo acct and send him pictures of yourself naked.
2007-01-23 06:27:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unplug it, tell him theres more important things in life than the internet...if he don't listen, get it cut off, or dump him and find someone who cares
2007-01-23 06:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unplug the ethernet cable>>>>loose weight and start looking sexy again
2007-01-23 06:28:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him. or wait til he gets bored. and steal the wire to his computer
2007-01-23 06:27:04 · answer #9 · answered by ribenacreep1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ignore him too.After some time,he will come to you,you'll see!!!
2007-01-23 06:27:58 · answer #10 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋