My boyfriend has a testicular cyst and we don't know if it could be cancerous or not yet. IN case the new is really bad. what can i do or say to confort him? How can i show my support and relieve his stress, fear anxiety, etc.
2007-01-23 06:07:18 · 5 answers · asked by leidy101 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
That's very kind of you. Let him know that you're there for him no matter what, and do try your best just to listen to him (try not to introject so much). Let him know that you hear him and suggest he goes to support groups if the news isn't so good. Also, plan intimate meals at home along with super fun nights out. He will need to think about good light stuff in order to know how good life can be. Keep yourself possitive too....he'll like that and it will make him feel at ease.
2007-01-23 06:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by mama bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend died of cancer but not before knowing how much she was loved by friends and family. You'll need to be extremly understanding of mood swings and emotions racing. I would think that a man would be worse because of their lack of being able to show true feelings sometimes. When a man is scared they show it in ways other than expression of fear. Let him know you are there for him and comfort him any way you can. This is a difficult situation and nothing you can say or do will releive his stress and anxiety but knowing he has someone to share it with will be a huge comfort, I'm sure. best of luck to you both.
2007-01-23 06:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can say. Just be there for him. IF it's cancerous, he will need not only your love and support, but you may have to hold him while he throws up, feed him, cover him when he has the shakes, take him to his appointments. That's how you help someone. Words can't. Keep a positive attitude for him. If it's bad news, say..."OK, so what's the plan to beat this?" Don't dwell on the negative. Hopefully, it will be nothing....just a cyst.
2007-01-23 06:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband had 2 testicular cyst both were nothing. They did however remove them. Do a little research on it, he may find that participating in the problem will comfort him. You can always try to get him to talk about it. But I'm sure he will be fine.
2007-01-23 06:17:10 · answer #4 · answered by be happier own a pitbull 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u truly love him, the words will come out naturally. So just give it time.
2007-01-23 06:15:49 · answer #5 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋