would you allow your wife to become a erotic massage therapist. My wife has received an offer to basiclly jerk men off for a living. The money is really good but I kinda feel uneasy about it. We are vry open sexually and as far as I know no sex is involved. Does anyone have any insight to this?
2007-01-23 05:56:21 · 9 answers · asked by assbladuh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Money is not everything. I don't about you but my wife could not be doing that
2007-01-23 06:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, I would not allow my significant other do that for a living, has nothing do with being insecure, there is a difference between right and wrong, and imagine if you were to do that, massaging women, its wrong. Massage therapist is fine, but if it crosses the line as "erotic" then she needs to realize that is asking for trouble. Be honest and open with her, tell her you love her and do not want her to do that. Tell her to put the shoe on the other foot!
2007-01-23 06:01:43 · answer #2 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a lot of variables to me. How much is she getting paid? How "erotic" does she have to be? How is she going to assure me that this is only x, y, but not z? Is she going to be so tired from helping men get off all day at work she doesn't want to help me get off at home?
If it was just jerking off, and all her cloths were going to stay on, and it was just her hand, and she was making $10,000 a week, and she wanted to do it, and I wasn't going to be missing out on anything we'd talk about it. As you get further from that, the talking would get longer and a little heavier leaning towards the "no" a little sooner.
2007-01-23 09:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously you are using a Bill Clinton definition of sex here. I'm sorry but this makes your wife a prostitute.
Now with that said, if you are OK with it and she is, I don't have a problem. But I am SURE she will have requests (maybe even forceful) for oral or intercourse. If you are prepared for that and can trust her, well, ok, but I don't think you do.
2007-01-23 06:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i would not let my wife do that. that is just not right. if she does that, she is basically opening herself up for more things and for things to go farther than just jerking off
2007-01-23 06:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by young grown man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like that would be getting too personal with other men for me to go along with that idea.
2007-01-23 06:02:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything that involoves the genitalia>>>>is sex>
2007-01-23 06:03:14 · answer #7 · answered by sea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes...... Just think how good she would be for you. easy Money dude. She could be a jack of all trades.
2007-01-23 06:04:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because it opens the door to other things, and she will be under constant presure to do more.
2007-01-23 06:00:39 · answer #9 · answered by redsyoungstud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋