i have a male friend who i just reconnected with and hes always asking me to hang out with him.i told him that we wouldnt be hanging out any time soon because of personal issues im going through and he said he understood and had no choice but to wait things out.yet he keeps bringing it up or mentioning meeting up.why does he keep doing this?
2007-01-23 05:44:57 · 8 answers · asked by aleah2515 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He's probably just really excited that he is your friend again, and just can't wait to see you.... Just tell him how you feel and hope things work out....
2007-01-23 05:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by *Red Hotts* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds pushy and scary. I wonder how well you know this "friend". Has it been like forever since you've seen him? maybe you need to make it clear if you haven't already, that you are not ready to meet up with him and to please stop asking. Tell him that when you are ready you will let HIM know and that you feel pressured by him. Tell him that right now you need some space and time and it is nothing personal but even though you like him as a friend, his constant pressuring is only making you feel even more stressed than you already feel. if he doesn't respond appropriately to this then you need to give him a consequence to his behavior. Treat him as you would a child that keeps misbehaving. Let him know that his choice of constantly pressuring you is going to cause you to have to make a decision as to whether you can continue talking to him at this time in your life. And if the pressure continues then you have to get even more firm and drastic depending on how far he wants to take it. Does he want harrassment charges filed? Don't be afraid to confront, I know it may be uncomfortable for you at first but if you keep practicing confrontation you'll gain confidence and you'll overcome.
2007-01-23 14:05:44 · answer #2 · answered by Always Honest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably wants to just talk to you about an issue he is having to deal with in his life you should take a time out to help a friend or he just likes you
2007-01-23 13:50:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe while you were separated, he realized that he likes or loves you
Maybe he is just trying to find a good time and place to tell you how he feels
Or maybe he just missed you like crazy
2007-01-23 13:49:45 · answer #4 · answered by silver rain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to meet up and hang out with you and catch up on old times....perhaps he wants to help you with your personal issues..seems harmless to me
2007-01-23 14:33:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he wants to hang out with you. Maybe he wants to help.
2007-01-23 13:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really, i don't know. maybe he just enjoys your company or maybe he's got some "interest" in you!
2007-01-23 14:11:08 · answer #7 · answered by Kheme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he's not the male that you think he is.... ???
2007-01-23 13:50:00 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋