i told my friend that i would think about moving in with her and just recently i told her that i was scared and didnt think i could do it. So, now she's pisssed at me and i dont know what to do. I have appologized and everthing. Please help me out. i dont know what to do anymore.
2007-01-23 05:41:31 · 5 answers · asked by katie p 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well I don't know the whole story but.....
You did tell her that you would "THINK" about moving in with her.. You didn't say that you would.
If she is truly a friend and not trying to control or manipulate you then she will cool off over time.
If you were scared for financial reasons and if she is mad now, she would be even more angry if you couldn't come up with your share of the rent.
I admire the fact that you were vulnerable with her and were bold enough to tell her the truth! I think that you did everything right from what I hear so far, she should forgive you and if she don't then she wasn't a true friend after all and you can find better friends than that. My advice would be to not settle for less. Good luck! But I don't know if I've heard the whole story.
I also agree with the guy who said that you made a good decision not to move in with her and the one that said to not stress about it.
2007-01-23 05:53:06 · answer #1 · answered by Always Honest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a good question Katie. I say that if she's still upset with you then you probably made the right decision about moving in. She needs to get over it.
Good for you, you probably spared yourself months of drama with this girl.
2007-01-23 13:44:55 · answer #2 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I applaud you for being honest with your friend. You said that you are thinking about moving in with her, but you didn't say that you are going to move in with her. Give her a chance to cool off and don't worry about it so much. If she is still angry with you about the fact that you chose not to move in with her, she is not the kind of friend that you want in your life. You've spared yourself months of drama if you chose to move in with her. I wish you the best of luck.
2007-01-23 13:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agreed. You've already apologized and as your friend, she should respect your decision to not move in with her right now. If not, maybe she's not the friend you thought she was.
2007-01-23 13:46:21 · answer #4 · answered by Duckie314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like is more her problem than yours. just keep being a friend and give it some time. don't stress about it. she'll probably get over it. then again, i don't know her.
2007-01-23 13:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by bluetiger2k3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋