help a scorpio?

Question

any ideas what's happening for my sign this year... particularly in the love department. i get so bored so easily in relationships, i'm quite 'cold' - even though i don't mean to be. what's generally a good match?

Answer 1

Your Ruling Planet is
Pluto & Mars.

Your Element is
Water.


Scorpio THE SCORPION - the sign of Transformation
Still waters run deep and in the case of Scorpio, there is much more going on under the surface than meets the eye. Consider a black hole which swallows up everything that comes within its power and we can only guess what happens next. However, this is the sign of beginnings and endings, birth and death and the certainty that comes with knowing that nothing stays the same forever. What a paradox - constant change!. Scorpio's are intense and have and have an ability to wait a very long time before they take action to put right a wrong. Better to have one as a true, trust and loyal friend than an enemy

Get More from Life
Being brutally honest is a quality which needs a health warning to others.

Ideal Careers
Lawyer, analyst, sex therapist, policeman, spiritualist, surgeon, funeral director, midwife, tax collector, psychologist, chemist, refuse collector.

Advice for Partners & Friends
A good idea - do what you say you are going to do and if you need to let someone in on a secret, make sure its a Scorpio.

Not so useful - thinking you can get away with anything.

We love you at your Best ...
When you are cutting through the cr*p and finding a cause worth fighting for when everyone else has given up. You go to the places that others fear and may have to do the dirty work but what you offer is a gift, enlightenment and the ability to allow others to see through their nightmares and demons and get to the other side. You are a trusted and loyal friend but once you are crossed forgiveness is difficult and you may prefer to move on, rather than put things right.

Powerful feelings and emotions, committed, loyal, imaginative, discerning, subtle, persistent, determined.

.... Difficult to Live With!
Sometimes you simply cannot help being manipulative and your mastery over others can bring a fair amount of anguish. However, you are fiercely protective and will do what it takes to keep what's yours, yours. Jealousy can be your undoing and it's possible that obsessiveness can be scary. Scorpios have the ability to see through lies and are not impressed by blagging and will not suffer fool.

Sun Signs You are most Compatible with
Pisces - absolutely superb,
Taurus - a rewarding relationship,
Aries - long lasting,
Cancer - paradise on earth,
Libra - rather heady stuff,
Leo - a powerful attraction.

Sun Signs You are not so Compatible with
Scorpio - a nuclear explosion,
Gemini - volatile & explosive,
Sagittarius - may be strained,
Aquarius - up and then down.

Your Opposite Sun Sign
is Taurus

You are in Good Company with these Famous Scorpions
The Ice Queen,
Melanie Griffiths,
Goldie Hawn,
Prince Charles,
Leonardo diCaprio,
Demi Moore,
Meg Ryan,
Julia Roberts,
Picasso,
Martin Luther,
The Kray Twins,
Charles Atlas,
Richard Burton,
Marie Curie,
Count Dracula,
Charles de Gaulle,
Richard Dreyfuss,
Frankenstein,
Princess Grace of Monaco,
Dick Tracy,
Art Garfunkel,
Katherine Hepburn,
the Incredible Hulk,
Robert Kennedy,
King Kong,
Vivien Leigh,
Burt Lancaster,
Marie Antoinette,
Pablo Picasso,
Carl Sagan,
Leon Trotsky,
Dylan Thomas.

Scorpio Places to Visit
Brazil
Montana
Norway
Oaklahoma
Panama
Russia
South Dakota
Sicily
the United Nations
Washington State

Scorpio is the eighth Sign of the Zodiac, and you shouldn't take that lightly. You shouldn't take Scorpios lightly, either. Those born under this Sign are dead serious in their mission to learn about others. There's no fluff or chatter for Scorpios, either: these folks will zero in on the essential questions, gleaning the secrets that lie within. Scorpios concern themselves with beginnings and endings, and are unafraid of either; they also travel in a world which is black and white and has little use for gray. The curiosity of Scorpios is immeasurable, which may be why they are such adept investigators. These folks love to probe and know how to get to the bottom of things. The fact that they have a keen sense of intuition certainly helps.

It's the Scorpion which symbolizes Scorpios, and it's no accident. Much like the Scorpion would rather kill itself than be killed, those born under this Sign are the ones who are in ultimate control of their destiny. It is life on the Scorpion's terms, too, since these folks promote their agenda (they are quite the executives) and see to it that things go forward. Others may find this overbearing (it can be) and even self-destructive, but that's the beauty of the Scorpion: these folks have tremendous regenerative powers, much like the literal Scorpion can lose its tail and promptly grow a new one. Fearless Scorpions rarely lose, per se, they just keep on going, since they are stubborn and determined to succeed (this Scorpio trait is in keeping with the Fixed Quality assigned to this Sign). Scorpios work as hard as they do so they can someday sit back and feel satisfied with themselves. These folks are intense, passionate and filled with desire. They're also complex and secretive, so don't expect to get much out of them, lest they become suspicious and exit stage left. It's best not to bet against Scorpios, either, since these folks are surprisingly resourceful.

Scorpio is ruled by the Planets Mars and Pluto. Mars was the God of War in ancient Roman mythology and is the first (and most ancient) ruler of Scorpio. When Pluto was discovered in the 20th century, it was also assigned to this Sign. Pluto was known as the God of the Underworld in ancient Roman times, so when coupled with Mars, expect some intense energy to head toward Scorpions here on Earth. This planetary combo makes for people who are motivated, penetrating and aware. Scorpions don't miss much, since they are highly attuned to the vibrations of others. They are intuitive, probing and very focused on knowing who's who and what's what. Scorpions can lose their temper (and even become vengeful) when someone gets in their way, so it's best to give them plenty of room. Remember, they're unafraid, and a loss today simply means an opportunity for victory tomorrow.

The Element associated with Scorpio is Water. As opposed to the 'roiling seas' seen in other Water Signs, a better motto for Scorpions would be 'still waters run deep.' Those born under this Sign are as emotional as their waterborne brethren, it's just that they're not as likely to show it. The Scorpio's emotions are repressed, kept under cover. Again, secrets to be used another day. That said, be aware that these folks are clever, perceptive and always in the mix. Their ability to see into things can sometimes be a curse for Scorpions, however, since they can take an insignificant matter and turn it into a huge slight. Beware the Scorpion who feels crossed! These folks can turn vindictive in no time flat. Luckily, once Scorpions catch their breath, they will return to their usual determined and loyal (albeit strong-willed) ways. Finally, while Scorpions aren't above some subtle manipulation to get what they want, they'd much rather take a scientific, even mystical path. The Scorpio-born are powerful and passionate, qualities which serve them well, as long as they don't let them deteriorate into self-indulgence or compulsion.

Scorpios love competition in both work and play, which is why they'll air it out in sports and games. Extreme sports are right up the Scorpion's alley, as is most anything which will test their mettle. They've got to have an adversary, since it makes the game that much more fun. The Scorpion's colors? Powerful red and serious black. When it comes to love, though, Scorpions soften up a bit and are caring and devoted with their lovers, even if they do hold on a bit tight. Scorpions are also lusty in the extreme (how else?), so they need to be mindful of their reproductive organs.

The great strength of the Scorpio-born is in their determination, passion and motivation. Scorpions don't know the word quit, which is why they usually get the job done. A powerhouse? Like no other.

2007 Horoscope

OVERVIEW: Passion carries you far this year in the realms of creativity and expression. Getting in touch with and appreciating more of your passionate nature will transform you in a way that results in putting more money in the bank. You could easily work as an advisor for big companies or in public relations. You understand what motivates people to do a good job and will find yourself in situations where people want your advice. Your creative insight expresses itself in dynamic ways and you will gain lots of recognition.

You have a very good support system in both your career and home life, and will learn that perfect order is taking place in your life at this time. Since your career has gotten off to such a great start this year, by summertime you will have more time on your hands to become romantically involved in a new relationship (or rekindling of old), which you've been thinking about for quite some time. You will be receiving some new and dynamic surprises and will be inspired to do some new and out-of-the-ordinary things in both your career and personal life.

You could enjoy spending time traveling to foreign lands and be drawn to observing others' ideas and cultures. You love to study. You will find that your relationship gives you lots of space to breathe, and yet you still have lots of spare time to take care of your own needs as well. You'll need tons of physical interaction to satisfy that wild passion of yours. Having massages, going to hot springs and being close to nature will bring a lot of balance and harmony to your life.

CAREER: You have a strong connection to artistic impulses, values and prestige and would do well seeking a profession in the arts this year. You have a natural eye for beauty and possess a natural grace in your dealings with people. Transformation is at your doorstep this year, and new opportunities await you. Your resources will grow as you have the gift of attracting big money. You work very hard, but need to realize that you don't have to do it alone. When you communicate your desires, you'll find that you'll get the help you need.

A career in counseling or working with children would also suit you as well. Versatility is important in order to give you the stimulation you need, and the ability to utilize the many skills you possess. You are proud of your ideas and very good at expressing them. Your thinking is creative and you have a smooth management style. You need opportunities in your career to relate with others intimately. You feel satisfied when you can help others organize their lives more efficiently -- so help away this year!

You might also consider a job that gives you time to travel and allows you the freedom to do what you like. You need to get away from routine to feel comfortable and satisfied. Even though your career seems challenging at times this year, you love the responsibility and have a deep urge for mastery and achievement. There may be times you feel that you're giving too much to your career and that achieving your goals is being delayed. Not to worry! You'll definitely achieve success from all your efforts and will be reaping many spiritual and material rewards by the end of the year.

LOVE: With such a loving personality, you will certainly attract romance and passion into your life this year, Scorpio! Your social life looks very promising and full of wonderful opportunities when you make the effort to meet new people. Your independent nature and strong desire to express yourself creatively this year gives you the ability to find excitement and develop new interests that you and your lover can do together.

When in a close relationship, you are intuitive, sensitive and psychic, and have a good sense of what other people's motives are. You experience emotions in a deep way through psychological bonding. As much as you may feel vulnerable at times this year, strive to experience the depths of your being and let yourself enjoy intense love relationships. Because of your keen awareness of others, it's good for you to take time to be with yourself, enjoy physical exercise and pamper yourself to help release a lot of the energy that you tend to store up inside yourself.

Your love life will be quite sensual this year. You will find much appreciation for the finer things in life. You'll realize the importance of sharing passionate moments with your partner. As much as you are working to get ahead in your career, your love life will not be satisfied playing second fiddle. You will definitely benefit from relaxing more and spending time with your sweetheart. Some of your energies need to be diverted towards cultivating more balance and harmony in your love relationship so you can enjoy the comforts of life together. You do much better when you have someone to share your deepest passions with.

Answer 2

I am a scorpion myself so can answer this based on research I've done over the years:
You have a frosty exterior but have a very warm heart if a)anyone is brave enough to get close to you and b)you actually allow someone to get close!
I cannot tell you what the year ahead holds because I don't look at or believe in general predictions for a star sign, I do however strongly believe in star types!
You have a choice of three love matches
1) Virgo - both intellectually similar and Virgo is able to satisfy you with sexual depth!
2) Capricorn - Scorpio will get craved after security, supposedly an excellent match!
3) Pisces - Sensual, intuitive, emotionally aware pairing. Pisces provides the magic that Scorpio craves for!
I am with a Pisces, boy oh boy - I never knew life could get this good!
I too used to get easily bored and never thought I'd find my perfect match (or anyone to put up with me!)
We Scorpions are frosty until you really know us, we find it difficult to trust anyone, we love sex and need constant stimulation.
I guess we are scary characters but well worth the challenge in the end.
By the way - avoid a fellow Scorpion because I have dated two and the domestics were off the radar!
Good luck, I hope you find what you are looking for this year x

Answer 3

Maybe it's your moon sign that makes you easily bored ie I think gemini's are ones who need a lot of mental stimulation, so if your moon's a gemini, for example, that could be having an effect. My boyfriend's a Scorpio, so I know what you mean about appearing 'cold' but I like to think he is just thinking deeply about something. Scorpio's are hard to win over - they have high standards but once you win their heart, they are loyal and kind and true. Maybe you just haven't met the right person who brings these qualities out in you? Btw, I'm a Capricorn, I like my own space and company and am not clingy, so perhaps someone who gives you space and doesn't come on too strong, someone quite independent - Sagittarius's are quite independent, I think.

Answer 4

Taurus is the opposite sign so that would be your best match. I'm a scorpio and usually go out with Leos (like to be the center of attention), Capricorns(very grounded) , Aquarius (fun), Virgo's (there's just something about virgo's, they have a stong sense of self) I just heard the opposite sign thing so I went out with a couple, I am attracted to them, they are very charismatic. My last BF was a scorpio, we were too much alike in that we don't express our feelings very well.

Answer 5

hehe yep! I meet lots of scorpios everywhere. & Aquarius. I love both, although both signs to me have their extremes. Either can be great or less compatible with your mood if too passive or the opposite too aggressive. I'm a scorpio but on cusp, so feel more like a sag lol

Answer 6

I am a Scorpio and I have just had a big let down in my relationship. I am hopeing its a good year . Its odd you are cold for a scorpio we are a very emotional and passionate sign. I hope it gets better for you .

Answer 7

It is hard being a Scorpio I can have the best relationship in the world and it,s not enough good luck I don,t have and answer for you I am A SCORPION TOO

Answer 8

I'm a Scorpio and i can be quite cold to but my girlfriend is a Gemini and we are supposed to clash but we don't we get on like a house on fire

Answer 9

I'm exactly like you, get bored very quickly, iv never been able to stay in a relationship long, I'm always the one who leaves!!! don't let me put you off, try a Pisces!!!

Answer 10

Only good things I HOPE
My son is a Scorpio

Answer 11

Best match... I would say a cancer... they acknowledge their emotions too, but are still not 'weak'... and we like strong people, don't we.

But I must say, if you feel cold, uninterested and things are just not doing it for you....try a gemini... they will shake up your life, entertain you and drive you nuts, because you can never finish analyzing what they want/feel... It worked for me :)