I have some major concerns with mine and my best friend's friendship. First of all, I am always the one who invites her places (hanging out, joining a gym, going to my family's house, vacations, etc) and she NEVER invites me to go do things she only receives never gives and I am ALWAYS inviting her
I feel like she is not herself around me by little things such as I know she loves country music but when I am around pretends like she doesn't and will listen to music I like. She has also been notorious for following me in my footsteps in things like where I goto college, what job I have, my pets, my car, my clothes, etc. I am not flattered by it because I beleive people are unique and beautiful in their own way you do not need to copy someone, be yourself!
I live with her and a lot of times she just comes home and hides away in her room all day and never makes an effort to go run errands, clean, grocery shop with me. She doesn't stand up to me either I think she has self-esteem issues!
2007-01-23 05:34:29 · 4 answers · asked by Shelly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Friendship is a two-way street, and you're the only one doing traffic-control right now! Sit back and let her come to you ... try not contacting her at all and see when she decides to get in touch with you. However, after reading the issues you're having and have had, I'd also seriously reconsider your friendship with this person.
2007-01-23 05:49:28 · answer #1 · answered by Duckie314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why she is not trying to do her sair in the relationship. you shouldn't be the only one inviting and doing all the dirty work it should be a two way street. You need to have a good talk with her and shair all these feelings you have boddled up with her. i am sure it would help the both of yous.
2007-01-23 05:41:39 · answer #2 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look you two are obviously not the same kind of people. She needs someone more shallow so that they can be shallow together and you need like 100 cats. End the madness now!!
2007-01-23 05:39:02 · answer #3 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i will give u some advice:
2007-01-23 05:39:56 · answer #4 · answered by Erik W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋