i am very emotionally dependent on my friend... i have hidden this well from her for about a year but now am finding it hard to hide....i realize how unhealthy this can be for both of us and i dont want to jeopardize our friendship but part of me wants her to know how i feel about her ..should i continue to hide the feelings and work through them in therapy or should i tell her how i feel and tell her i am working through them in therapy... i dont want to freak her or scare her to the point she abandons our friendship but sometimes i find myself getting so angry with her for no reason ...my gut tells me to keep it hidden ..continue the facade and work through my feelings with my therapist ...any ideas or suggestions
2007-01-23 05:32:48 · 2 answers · asked by crap 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Kinda funny i am going thru the same thing right now. It is very unhealthy especially if you been emotionally dependent on your friend like i have been i wouldn't keep it hidden communication is the key maybe she feels the same way. i wouldn't keep it hidden work thru your prolbems a real friend would understand like i said maybe she is going thru the same thing. Ask your therapist for advice as well.
2007-01-23 07:00:53 · answer #1 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is a good friend then you should have no problem shairing all this with her. I know if my friend came to me and said all this and that she was working it all out in therapy i would be there for her. why hide things thats only my thought. you need to decide this on your own because I don't know your friend and I don't know how she would react. good luck to you. I feel for you.
2007-01-23 05:46:23 · answer #2 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋