I' am straight! Well i thought i was but there is the gay girl at school! She is really cool but doesnt really know me! I keep thinkin about her about how kool she is and how i really want to get to know her. I think i might have a thing about her because i havent thought about a person this much since my last boyfriend! Does this mean i am gay or bi am really confused!
2007-01-23 05:24:28 · 49 answers · asked by Lil Sofi 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you act onit and actually have sex with her then you are gay!!
2007-01-23 05:27:38 · answer #1 · answered by Hi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't mean you are gay or bi. I am not sure how old you are bit the fact that your still at school means you must be fairly young. Plenty of woman have feelings or thoughts towards people of the same sex but this is only natural. I know plenty of woman who are in loving hetro relationships who fantasise about other girls or friends but it is just that, a fantasy. Even if something did happen betwen you then this again doesnt mean anything. Woman tend to have an appreciation towards other womans bodies etc as woman are more attractive to look at than men.
Im not gay but if you take a womans body and compare it to a mans! A lot of woman think that females are more physically attractive than a mans.
Just see what happens but you certainly dont sound like your gay or bi.
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2007-01-23 05:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by Tabbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is really confusing for you!!! This is how it started for me, both me and a friend both had a thing for the gay girll at school, we both thought we were straight, i mean i had a boyfriend at the time but all i could think about was this girl... in the end i found my true feelings and had to start dealing with the fact that i was gay, but my friend who was having the same feelings did not end up the same way she put it down to pure curiosity anyway i guess what i am trying to say is you have to see where these feelings are taking you it is nothing to do with sex you can be gay without having gay sex just like you can be straight without having straight sex, just dont listen to anyone else darlin just follow your heart it will all make sense in the end..
Good luck.
2007-01-23 05:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun it is ok to be curious without labeling yourself gay or bi. If you ever try it and decide you like it and don't have any feelings of regret than you may be bi (emphasize on maybe) Especally if you like men too. If this is something that you are confused about because of how you were raised(that this is not ok) then it helps to talk to others about it. This subject is not as cut and dry as many people might think. It is emotional and confusing. You dought yourself and wonder what others may think of you. Take your time, no need to rush into anything. Get as much information on this subject as you can and as much advice as you need before you make your desicion. Good luck Hun I know how you feel, REALLY.
2007-01-23 06:26:41 · answer #4 · answered by lost angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well take it from me I'm only 15 years old and since you said you are in school I'm guessing you are in high school (like me) anyways if you are thin i don't think that you really can tell r decide for that matter until you come of age (Turn18) until then i would GUESS that you just really think that this is a cool girl and you woule want to get to know her now if you are having dreams or fantasies about her then i would have to say MAYBE but that's only if you're that sprung over her.........but what do i know im only 15 but that's the best advise that I could give you.
2007-01-23 05:37:05 · answer #5 · answered by Mickey18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are thinking about her in a sexual manner most likely you could be bisexual. The actual ability to act on these tenancies may be a different story. More women show bisexual tenancies then man , due to the fact that it is far more socially acceptable. Yet most women will never act on these feelings. If you are then you are , only you can really know. Not the end of the world if you are bi or gay
2007-01-23 05:33:23 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah - don't worry about it - it's common to go through a phase of wondering 'what if', especially during teenage years (which I assume you are in if you still at school) - it's all part of the curiosity about pretty much everything at such an age, and you're probably more wondering 'what would it be like' subconsciously. If the feelings persist, maybe you are gay, or bi, but there's nothing wrong with that. But i wouldn't act on your feelings until you are really sure about how you feel ie let some time pass to see if you feel differently with time... above all, don't worry about it - it's perfectly natural!
2007-01-23 05:30:26 · answer #7 · answered by Just_wondering 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just because you think about this girl doesnt mean your gay. Try getting to know her because you just might be confused about it, you could end up liking her as a friend. Also, woman these days are bi-curious, that might be the term used.
2007-01-23 05:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by Still Standing 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are attracted to a person of the same it does not make you gay.Curiosity is natural instinct.If these thoughts should exceed a certain point then you may need to read deeper into that.If they consist of physical sexual behavior,it is still only a thought.When you can think of nothing more than persuing these physical actions,then tou might be gay.
2007-01-23 05:47:27 · answer #9 · answered by Raymond B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you want to kiss her you might just be gay, BUT! if you are just idolizing this person... you want to be like her... then you are just infatuated. For instance, I think Rita Hayworth was absolutely gorgeous! I would have followed her around, too! But I wouldn't want to kiss her. There is a HUGE difference even though you are attracted to a person. The real jolt of evidence on whether or not you are gay is if you want to DO something with her.
2007-01-23 05:29:53 · answer #10 · answered by madjennyvane 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it makes you BI-curious. Even if you kiss the girl that does not make you GAY. you are considered GAY is you can honestly say you can be in a committed long lasting forever relationship with a WOMAN no man in sight. Until then your BI-curious. Once you experience something then you are cosidered open to alternative life style. If you like being with women and men then you are offically Bi.
p.s men carry the label GAY 2 men
2 women is lesbian
a women who like both men and women Bi
2007-01-23 05:30:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋