2007-01-23 05:12:50 · 28 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I do not believe that all men cheat. It's a matter of integrity though and it's becoming harder to find men with that quality. I had one for a father and I have one now. For a woman there's no greater happiness than to know you are in a loving and secure relationship where you don't ever have to worry or even think that the man you love, adore and gave your heart to would cheat on you in any way.
Once I found my guy looking at pictures on the computer and my heart skipped a beat until I saw that he was looking at pictures he had taken of me!
My ex-husband cheated on me from about the first year of our long marriage. When I found out, it broke my heart in a million pieces. I had given everything and he abused that trust. It took me a long time to get over that - if I indeed have.
I am so grateful that the man I'm with now has such character. He NEVER lies, cheats or takes what is not his. He is a man's man and I have so much respect for him. He told me the other day that as a man he could not respect himself if he let himself down by lowering his standards. I have seen him do the most kind and generous things for people he does not even know.
My ex used to lie about everything, have sex with any woman who would have him, take whatever he could get and generally treat people badly. He got what he deserved when he lost his house, his wife, his children, his career, his car and his money.
2007-01-23 05:47:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,I don't believe all men cheat at all ,but alot does but so does alot of women but the ones that do cheat us ally gives the rest of the gender a black mark on the gender unfortunately ; everyone is different & you just have too beleive that the one you pick will not cheat on you until he or she proves otherwise, we are trusting of other people & they hurt us too maybe not the same way .
I had a boyfreind years ago that cheated on me but I'm married & have been for 15 years happy years . Usaully when someone cheats theirs all always a reason unfortunenatly cause too me they are never a good reason no matter what it is cause you can alway's leave the other person first leaving may hurt the person also but cheating hurts even more in my opinon .
Good Luck & Best Wishes
May GOD Bless You
2007-01-23 05:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by sweettexasangel12001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married, but I believe that, given the right circumstances, most men will. I'm not cynical; I believe that there are some men out there that won't, but they are few and far between. Our society, the media, and the workplace don't help, either. Sex is constantly thrown in our faces, and monogamy is seen as making you less than a man (look at the average cover of a men's magazine!). Sadly, most men buy into that mindset, and subsequently hurt women who could easily be good for them in a relationship. I wish that this was not the case, but sadly, it is. And many women are emotionally scarred by this attitude today.
2007-01-23 05:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by Judy W 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I believe that men have a MUCH MUCH harder time saying "No" when presented with the opportunity to cheat. When a woman flirts with a man and gives him the hint that she will have sex with him..most men can't say No.
Men like to use alcohol intoxication as an excuse why they cheated or tried to hook up with someone. They claim they were too drunk to remember....yet somehow they remember everything else. lol Or they like to say that they only flirted etc. because they didn't want to hurt the girls feelings. All ridiculous excuses. Or, my personal favorite, they like to use the excuse that they only messed around with another girl because the two of you were having an argument and he felt like you "pushed him away" oooofa!!!! all complete BS.
Too many men can't take responsibility for their own actions...when caught in the act.
Somehow...no matter how much the man is at fault...he will get mad, maybe even break things...lol...and insist that the woman CAUSED him to do it. I personally am nauseated by "men" like that. They don't deserve to be called a man.
When a person--man or woman--cheats...its NOONE's fault but their own...period.
2007-01-23 05:27:05 · answer #4 · answered by S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe all men cheat. There are some who don't just like there are some women who cheat and some who do not. I hate to see people lump everyone in the same category. Everyone is a individual and will do things separately.
2007-01-23 05:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by sexyladyinak 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I recently had a long conversation with two friends, one a middle-aged gay man and one a married man in his late sixties. In a nutshell, they told me that men are always going to be polygamous and expecting a man to be different is decieving oneself. I understand that this is a widely held belief in the gay community and an excuse for the incredible numbers of partners some gay men have had (but I am not saying that all gay men are Gene Simmonses), but the married man really shocked me.
I have been with an amzing young man for over two years now and have never had any reason to believe that he has had any sexual interaction with another woman - despite our not being exclusive. Even with every opportunity, he has never cheated and says he has no desire.
If you two are really right for eachother and fulfill eachother, are truly equals emotionally and intellectually and see physical beauty in the other, then there is no reason to seek out sexual satisfaction elsewhere. Cheating is almost always just a symptom of a larger problem in a relationship.
2007-01-23 05:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by Mysterious Gryphon 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This one does... Maybe not 100% of men, but at least 90%. So you might as well say all.
Added: My dad and stepdad cheated on my mom, my ex on me, my grandfather on my grandmother, my uncle, other relatives and friends, and I've been hit on by enough married men who would obviously cheat and probably did with someone else.
But women cheat too, just not as much. For women, I'd say less than half; maybe 40%.
2007-01-23 05:19:57 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ONLY WOMEN WHO ARE INSECURE. IF THEY HAVE BEEN HURT BY AN UNFAITHFUL GUY, BE IT HUSBAND OR BOYFRIEND, THEN IT COULD TAKE A LONG TIME FOR THEM TO BE ABLE TO TRUST AGAIN...IF EVER. MY EX-HUSBAND CHEATED ON ME MORE THAN ONCE. HE PLAYED IN A BAND THAT CHOSE TO USE DRUGS, ECT. SINCE THEN , I HAVE NOT ONLY BEEN ABLE TO FORGIVE HIM TO THE POINT THAT WE ARE ACTUALLY FRIENDS, I HAVE BEEN MARRIED TO THE MAN OF MY DREAMS FOR 17 YEARS COME JUNE! ALL MEN ARE NOT THE SAME AND ALL MEN DO NOT CHEAT! THERE ARE JUST AS MANY UNFAITHFUL WOMEN IN THIS WORLD! THAT'S JUST MY STORY AND OPINION. IF MY EX HAD NOT CHEATED, I WOULD HAVE NEVER FOUND MY CURRENT HUSBAND! ONE WAY TO LOOK AT IT!
2007-01-23 05:26:34 · answer #8 · answered by tammie b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the woman as to what answer you'll get. If you asked my Mom and Mother In Law, they might say yes, but they are from a different generation. I believe that NOT all men cheat.
2007-01-23 05:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe given the right circumstances all men would honestly consider it. Maybe not follow through, but seriously consider it.
Likewise for the women.
2007-01-23 05:53:03 · answer #10 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋