if you are married, maybe a little unhappy, but still loving your wife. Is it possible to fall in love with someone else, and still be in love with wife? I know the difference between love and in-love, but is it possible to be in-love with both?
2007-01-23 05:05:34 · 18 answers · asked by DazednConfuzed 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So... it sounds like to me that you have your cake and eating it too, please dont think this is going to last you
2007-01-23 05:18:32 · answer #1 · answered by georgia k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not with the same type of love. There are different types of love. You may have a strong but "boring" love for your wife and more of a hot "lusty" attraction to the new woman. However, the two types of love are very different, and each type is not usually filled by more than one person at a time. Many would say that if you truly love your wife, then you would not have those feelings for someone else.
2007-01-23 13:12:20 · answer #2 · answered by FelixtheCat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is impossible. I mean there are only 3 BILLION people on the planet, the chances of you finding two you can love or be in love with has be astomonical. Well, okay, maybe not astonomical, maybe just unlikely. Okay, okay, yeah maybe completely likely. But not for you, you are different, you can only ever love one person. Yeah right.
The real question you have to answer is why did you allow yourself to fall in love with the other woman? I bet your wife would like to know that also. It's your fault, your gonna have to deal with it.
2007-01-23 13:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in for drama, and jealousy, and trusting issues...you are cheating on your wife, and what goes aroud comes around, i hate to say this but the truth always comes out. Whether its an emotional affair or physical affair, its un fair to your wife, who married you and is in love with you. You are making a huge mistake, if you really loved your wife, you would stick with her through thick and thin. Would you like for her to do the same to you? would you be ok with that? think about what you really want and make a decision, please be honest with her before she finds out, and things get bad. If you love someone, then you would not hurt them.
2007-01-23 13:46:34 · answer #4 · answered by dream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to have to say if you do fall in love with others then you are not in love with your wife your just use to having her there. It is like having something that you know is never leaving but at the same time you have found a person that you really care about. it is too hard for me to explaine but I am at that same point in my life and it is not my husband i want it is someone alse.
2007-01-23 13:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible but not right and you should find counseling for you and your marriage and you need to learn to let go and not love the other person anymore and you need to learn how to fall in love with and cherish your wife all over again.
2007-01-23 13:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe with love, anything is possible. But in all fairness, you need to decide which one makes you happiest, which one you can honestly see spending your life with. Marriage is a vow, but everyone makes mistakes and sometimes, we do not see the forest for the trees until after it seems to be to late. It is never to late to be truly happy. Realize that if you are not sure of your marriage, then it will eventually affect your relationship with your wife. I believe we all need to be selfish sometimes...hearts mend.
2007-01-23 18:42:41 · answer #7 · answered by sweetsouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! You are "emotionally attached" to your wife and in love with the other person. It's important you understand this difference. Eventually, you MUST make a final choice. Please do not lead another person on, it's purely selfish on your part and will hurt all involved. End one relationship before starting the next!!!!!!
2007-01-23 14:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by Perplexed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can love two people at the same time but to do so
would be a betrayal of your wife & marriage ...
2007-01-23 13:09:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, If you are in love with your wife, you could see let alone be with another woman.
2007-01-23 13:22:53 · answer #10 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really knew the difference between one and the other you would not be asking such an asinine question!
2007-01-23 13:10:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋