what does it really mean when one of my best friends are getting jealous that im hanging out with my boyfriend more than she is? it's kind of weird... like when my boyfriend and i go out and dont tell her, she'll yell at us saying "WHY DIDN'T YOU TELL ME YOU WERE GOING? WHY COULDN'T I GO?" whats going on with her???... and she's always asking him for rides and everything.. why would she do such things?
2007-01-23 04:57:19 · 13 answers · asked by Ms Sinful Azn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Either she is interested in your boyfriend, or she is jealous that you are spending time with him (and not her).
Either way, very immature.
I would suggest that you take some time when he is not around to sit down and talk to her. Ask her straight out what is going on with her. Ask her if she feels like you aren't spending enough time with her, and why.
If she's just into your man, she most likely won't admit it. But I would keep her at a distance... the last thing you need is a 'friend' like that.
2007-01-23 05:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by Holding A Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This a situation were both of you like the same person and she is jealous the reason she asks for rides is probably she is trying to steal him and I think she needs to go some were and leave both of you alone I would confront that to her face before something serious happens.
2007-01-23 13:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by scottsmith20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she's jealous because your hanging out with your boyfriend more than She is. I think she is thinking she's losing a best friend...you. Make time for your friends .Your guy needs to be with his buddies too.
2007-01-23 13:09:34 · answer #3 · answered by jean 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its pretty clear that she likes him and is jealous of you and your boyfriends relationship.The big sign is that shes always asking for rides from him.So really,you have three choices 1)Spend less time with one of them so they never have to be around each other. 2)Dump Him. 3)Dump Her.If I were you and option 1 wouldnt work,I'd dump her.She should be happy for you,not jealous!This could only lead to trouble,because if she likes this guy and you and him finally break up,she'll probably find something to like in your future boyfriends.
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2007-01-23 13:09:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she doesn't want to loose you as a friend. She thinks that now since you have boyfriend and hanging out with her less then she starts to think that you don't want her as a friend.
2007-01-23 13:08:50 · answer #5 · answered by livvy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you to have a private talk w/ her and sort out things. Resolving these issues requires honest confrontations. Therefore, instead of worrying too much about it, go talk to her and make it clear that you are finding her behavior irrational.
2007-01-23 13:08:50 · answer #6 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's jealous that you're spending more time with him than her and/or she likes him. Talk to her about it and maybe compromise when you and her can hang out and when you can be with your boyfriend.
2007-01-23 13:07:01 · answer #7 · answered by sweet gurl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe shes just jelous of you because you have a man. If shes really your friend and you trust her you shouldnt have to watch her with your man. Try settin her up with someone so she has a man too. Then maybe she wont be so jelous!!
2007-01-23 13:04:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look it seems to me that your friend may have a thing for your dude. My advice is to talk with her because she is being disrespectful towards you and if u know what is good you'll watch her.
2007-01-23 13:09:40 · answer #9 · answered by Bricee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Means she's not your true friend if she does that. Sounds like she has already started to try to take him away from you.
2007-01-23 13:04:46 · answer #10 · answered by Forever♥Aries 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋