2007-01-23 04:49:56 · 13 answers · asked by cheer_4_life 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Does it really matters if your boyfriend doesn't cheats to you?
2007-01-23 04:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by hmmm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the TV ad says, "You don't give a foot massage to your friend's girl and you don't have her in your 5". The same is true if it is the opposite sex. Your "friend" isn't being a real friend. If your boyfriend won't cut it off with your "friend", then dump both of them and move on.
Better yet, I think you all need to find out what true love really is and isn't. Sit down together and read in the Bible, I Corinthians 13 "The Love Chapter" where it says love is patient and kind and seeks not its own way at the expense of others. Love isn't boastful or proud, but always believes in the positive. This love is such that it will gladly give its life to save the life of another. It says of faith, hope and love that love is the greatest. It is this kind of love that has kept my wife and I married for over 28 years.
You 3 need to develop this kind of love if your relationship as friends is to continue properly. If you can't, then you need to move on and find someone who will develop it with you. I suggest that you find a Bible believing church and join the the youth group there. You will find that most of them will practice love as Jesus said it should be and you might find someone who will fit your dreams of a mate.
2007-01-23 05:10:37 · answer #2 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
H to the E to the double L. F to the U to the C to the KING no. That is wrong on soooooooooo many levels.
She wants you man. Stop that now. Next thing she will be coming over to see him. Cut that out now.
2007-01-23 04:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not right even if you gave her permission. Seems like she is trying to beat your time. Watch out. Tell her to back off or else discontinue being her friend and tell your boyfriend the same thing.
2007-01-23 04:55:48 · answer #4 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how "right" it is but i know that would bother me. a similart thing happened to me in highschool, my boyfriend started talking to one of my friends on the internet. he'd tell her about all the problems in our relationship and within a week she knew more about what was going on in our relationship and how he felt about it than i did. during this time i had also had a few girl talks with her telling her a bit about things that annoyed me in the relationship. she would then go and tell him everything i told her but keep me in the dark. when i found out about everything i was really pissed off and told her how i didn't like what she was doing and she told me she didn't want to stop because he liked how my bf told her all his secrets. the next day her sister told me not to put so much stress on her because she was complaining that she felt like she was stuck in the middle of my relationship with my boyfriend. this pissed me off because this girl had been putting herself in the middle and pretty much told me that she enjoyed it. after telling her my side of the story,i told the sister to handle the girl while i talked to my boyfriend about it, needless to say they stopped talking on the internet after that.
i'm not saying that your friend and your boyfriend are talking about that kind of stuff behind your back but it is something to be concerned about. cheating isn't always about physical actions, people can have emotional affairs as well which can sometimes be more painful than physical affairs
2007-01-23 05:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to stop calling him because it isn't right. How did she get his number and if she stop calling your boyfriend maybe she could find her own guy. He also needs to take some responsibility for talking to her.
2007-01-23 05:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now I know you know this is so wrong its unbelievable, first he'd be gettin a mouth full and so would she. Your only putting up with this because you havnt had enough yet and your age i'm assuming. Call this girl and striaght up tell her it aint cool and if it doesnt stop you'll be dealing with her, and as for him tell him its gonna stop or you wont be calling him anymore and if they dont like it you dont need either one of them so who cares, life is short forget this crap, good luck Kim
2007-01-23 04:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not right at all (unless thier planning a suprise party for you, or a big gift). Set the both of them straight.....immediately.
2007-01-23 04:54:50 · answer #8 · answered by krisy_80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about another woman?Put a stop to it before you lose him.But if he's talking back with her he might need some straightening out .But if it's his male buddy's tell them you need your time with your man.And be aggressive about it.
2007-01-23 04:57:00 · answer #9 · answered by walter_nahbexie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a little weird. like what could they possibly talk about be careful. hunn thats not a good sign at all. be really careful . im here for you.
2007-01-23 04:57:02 · answer #10 · answered by oh snapp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋