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Wel we all had to go to the skool doctor abd she said bout my age and leght that ill be startein ma period and ma mum told her i alreddy started on new years eve and then the doc told ma teacher and now i feel a lot difrant roud him he give me exra atention and he looks like a pidofeel round me wot can i do?

2007-01-23 04:19:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health Women's Health

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Well i think you are a liar!! Just looked at your last few questions and in one you said you started your periods on new years and on the other you said that your last period was in november? you also said you are a virgin in one but had sex in dec so asked if you could be pregnant in another question? Also in one your age is 14 then 15 and in the next one your 12????????And these questions were written in the last 2 months!!!!

2007-01-23 08:26:24 · answer #1 · answered by shygirl 2 · 0 0

Well, you don't say what your age actually is. I'm not quite sure why your doctor would feel obliged to tell your teacher.
What kind of extra attention is your teacher giving you? It may well be that the teacher is aware that maybe you already feel different to the other kids so perhaps he is actually trying to make you feel better. A person cannot look like a paedophile (note spelling) by the way. That is an incredibly serious allegation and I trust that you are not saying things like like around school without actual evidence - rumours can get out of hand very quickly and a teacher's career and life can be ruined for no reason.
I would be inclined to say to your teacher that you are aware that your doctor has given him some priviledged confidential information and that you do not wish your teacher to give you any kind of special attention as a result.
It may be that you have grounds for a complaint against your doctor for giving out confidential information about you without your consent.

2007-01-23 12:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by emsr2d2 4 · 1 0

If your teacher is making you feel strange around him then you might want to talk to the nurse and counciler for your school. I know that it is imbarrassing for this change to accure. In school it is worse. I was 9.
If you see a change that you think that it is based on his new found knowledge of you then you may need to talk to someone.
I do not know if it was the right thing to do to tell the teacher herself, but I do think it may be a good thing for them to know sometimes. You may have to tell some of them when you need a special restroom break. Some will not allow it at all but they can get into trouble if you have a female problem and they do not let you go take care of it.
If that were to happen you make sure to tell your parents and the nurse.

2007-01-23 12:28:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Before I start answering your question, I want to say to everyone else who has responded here and who will be responding there that this is not about someone's abitlity to spell. Get past that and offer real help, which is very, very much needed here.

There are two problems here, and unfortunately, the both affect you.

First, doctors are supposed to not share information about patients without permission, and then only with other doctors, nurses, etc, as needed. That's called doctor/patient confidentialyity, and your doctor broke that.

The second problem is the change in your teacher's apparent attitude towards you. This is not what any teacher should be doing around any student.

First, talk to your parents about all of this. You need the adults around to you do the single biggest and most important job that any adult can do, and that's to protect children. Yes, biologically, you're a woman (congratulations on that, BTW), but you're still a child. Your doctor and your teacher should be doing this as well, but they're not, so you need your parents at least you help you here.

If your parents won't help or if they're not sure how to help, then they need to talk to the school principal about your teacher. If the principal agrees that there's something wrong, it will be taken care of.

Now, there's something else that should be said here. Sometimes when something about us changes, we begin to feel that everyone around has changed instead of us. We can begin to feel that we are being treated differently and unfairly. It's unfortunate, but it's the truth. I am not saying this to blame you in the least. As I said, this isn't uncommon. That's why your principal needs to investgate what's happening with your teacher.

In the meantime. talk with your parents about all of this.

2007-01-23 12:51:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

I am confused as in a previous question you said you were 19? Why are you still at school and also how can you have an adopted daughter of 13? (again in a previous question) you seem very confused so I suggest you talk to someone about it. Also perhaps speak to the teacher about spelling lessons.

2007-01-23 12:44:32 · answer #5 · answered by suzi 3 · 1 1

Well, the FIRST thing you do is LEARN HOW TO SPELL CORRECTLY!!! Your spelling is so disgraceful as to be nearly illiterate!!!

As for what to do about your teacher, are you SURE you're not just over-reacting and feeling odd about things because a MAN knows you menstruate?? As long as he doesn't touch you or make any lecherous comments there's nothing TO be done. Just ignore him, and don't stay alone with him, and remember that the school year will be over in a few months.

2007-01-23 12:34:12 · answer #6 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0 1

your school doc has no authority to tell anyone if they did there are in breach of confidentiality and could be in serious trouble are you sure your mother never told him or have you made up a load of rubbish as you writing is like a five year old or someone trying to appear young just to ask a silly question

2007-01-24 19:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by little flower 3 · 0 0

dont worry love, your teacher is still the same as before the only thing is he maybe a bit more sympathetic to the pains etc and pmt we all get around that time of the month, bit off them telling him tho, my kids would have killed me lol, but really dont worry your not different your perfectly normal and your teacher is still the same as he was 3 days ago . good luck hun, and dont let it bother you xxxx

2007-01-23 12:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by suzie1968uk 3 · 0 0

Talk to your school counselor about your problems and possibly bring up your spelling issues. As honestly I can barely understand what you are asking us.

2007-01-23 12:52:25 · answer #9 · answered by Jyse 6 · 1 0

I don't think you've spent enough time on schooling yet. I can't understand a word of your question, its giving me eye strain to try and decipher it. You are not texting now, so could you please use the correct spellings so that we can understand.

2007-01-23 19:02:03 · answer #10 · answered by S 4 · 0 0

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