2007-01-23 04:03:15 · 24 answers · asked by lolita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are many other factors to consider other than the fact that you have been together for one year...
2007-01-23 04:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on your relationship..some people get married after only a couple months of dating and last for the rest of their lives and some people that dated for years before finally getting married end up in divorce and vice versa. if you're not fully ready or sure then don't do it though..you'll know when the time is right. make sure that you are both on the same page and that you don't jump into anything. i know some people say that its not traditional to live together before marriage..but if i wouldn't have lived with my now husband before we got married..i think it would have been a lot of adjusting! we got all that taken care of before we got married..that way there were no surprises. good luck!
2007-01-23 04:13:34 · answer #2 · answered by JKlein 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What does 1 year have to do with anything? You should get married when you are ready for that. It could be 1 week or 10 years. When you are ready.
2007-01-23 04:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by javelin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I think you both should be ready for the commitment or you shouldn't do it. Cause if you do it could be a disaster waiting to happen. You don't want it to end in a divorce. My husband and I have been married for ten years and only dated two weeks. It is all if you are ready not if you should or shouldn't. Good Luck
2007-01-23 04:10:39 · answer #4 · answered by browneyes79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not always about the time it has to do with the level of maturity of the people wanting to marry. if he is mature, has a job, has a good work ethic, can handle stress and problems and he has a good past where he didn't hurt someone, than he may be okay. but it is something we can really never know for sure, as sometimes marriage changes people for the better, sometimes for the worst. best to discuss anything your not in agreement with prior to marriage. and has he treated u with complete respect during the relationship?
2007-01-23 04:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's your choice to make, also if you both feel that your ready to get married. My wife and I got married almost 3 years after we started dating to get married, but we also started dating in High School.
2007-01-23 04:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No . You should get married when you are old enough for responsibility and are financially stable. Then you should start saving. I would wait until you are at least 30 years old.
2007-01-23 04:15:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just depends on where you are in life. Education, careers, ages, etc. If you talked about your goals, family plans. If you feel you are ready mature and financially stable. But give these things a lot of thought.
2007-01-23 04:19:34 · answer #8 · answered by DL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 21 he was 22 we had known each other for 11 months and we celebrate our 15 year anniversary this year.
If you're ready you'll know. Good luck.
2007-01-23 04:11:09 · answer #9 · answered by Sassy Pants 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are the reason the divorce rate in this country is so high. You can't even put together a grammatically correct sentence, yet you think you should get married. I bet your in your EARLY twenties. Probably can't even legally drink yet.
2007-01-23 04:16:14 · answer #10 · answered by Doug Church 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋