Everytime that my partner and I have sex, he tries to last for a long time the longest we've had sex is for has been an hour and 1/2, but I was still left wanting MORE!!! Sometimes when we have sex I have to act like I was left satisfied, I feel bad for lying to him. What can I do? I always want more, and MORE! I never feel like I'm Completely satisfied.
2007-01-23 03:59:59 · 33 answers · asked by ~*~Sweet_Face~*~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are you orgasming? If not, that may be why you are left wanting more...
Have you ever tried bringing toys into bed?
2007-01-23 04:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Question: during these "marathon" sessions, do you have orgasms? If you don't, then that may be the problem. Don't act like you're satisfied; that can build into sexual frustration, and lead you down the path to an affair. Explore other avenues of sexuality, like touch, emotional sex, etc., and you might also want to buy "The Joy of Sex", or the "Kama Sutra". These are excellent resource books, if you want to explore other positions and venues of sexuality. Lastly, be gently honest with your partner. Let him know that you enjoy being with him, and you want to try some other things. Most men LOVE to be experimented on, and he might appreciate the pressure being taken off of him to perform. Good luck and God bless.
2007-01-23 04:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by Judy W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same boat, I want it a lot and always want more. Men can only do so much, use toys, and let him use toys on you. Give him breaks, wake him after a power nap, or in the middle of the night. Good luck too, let me know what works, I'm trying all these things too, except waking him up, he's kinda grouchy if someone wakes him, so I'm scared to do that lol!
2007-01-23 04:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you orgasm? I would say, probably not and that is leaving you unsatisfied. You need to show him the spot that gets you off and talking a lot during and after sex should help.
If you do orgasm but just enjoy the closeness, intimacy and feelings you get when you are one with him, then when he is finished, masturbate...and doing that in front of him may excitement him enough to go again.
:-)
Good Luck!
2007-01-23 04:05:39 · answer #4 · answered by megabites42 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a little foreplay before sex? Sometimes that helps me because no matter how long we go I still want more. Also try using a toy while you are having sex. I mean you just might need to try different things to make it more exciting for you. Good Luck!
2007-01-23 04:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by jessica c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a clinical fact that women have an enzyme that causes them to get energized after sex whereas guys have the opposite effect and tend to want to go to sleep. If you can keep your guy awake after for about 20 minutes or so, he'll be ready for more.
2007-01-23 04:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK dudes, I know the temptation is to say come on over or something like that, but think about it....a woman who is never satisfied....be careful of what you wish for.....
2007-01-23 04:28:32 · answer #7 · answered by dj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must not be achieving orgasm. You also should not lie to your man about your satisfaction, that is very disrespectful. Be honest with him and you guys can work through this together as a couple.
You need to learn to bring yourself to orgasm, then you can teach him how.
2007-01-23 04:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the time in lovemaking is not what satisfies you the intimency in sex is where the good stuff is if he dosent touch you in your sencitive area's then you dont have as good of an orgasm as if he had done so.
2007-01-23 04:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by get er done 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not uncommon for women to feel like they are not totally satisfied after the guy is done. If he's a good guy, he would try and help satify you in other ways, like oral sex or helping you get off in other ways.
2007-01-23 04:03:59 · answer #10 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋