Why don't you value the one you love and often treat badly even loving?
2007-01-23 03:54:29 · 17 answers · asked by Natalya Ch 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Men mistreat women because they can. If you don't want to be mistreated, stop allowing it.
2007-01-23 04:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to find out what true love really is and isn't. Read in the Bible, I Corinthians 13 "The Love Chapter" where it says love is patient and kind and seeks not its own way at the expense of others. Love isn't boastful or proud and always believes in the positive. This love is such that it will gladly give its life to save the life of another. It says of faith, hope and love that the greatest is love. If love dies, it wasn't love in the first place, but something else. This kind of love has kept my wife and I married for over 28 years. If we didn't value each other, we never would have gotten married in the beginning.
Both men and women need to practice this kind of love. Without it, the marriage is much more likely to fail. And women can treat men just as badly as you seem to think men treat women. Any man who has had the full attack of his spouse's PMS can testify that women can treat men badly. Anyone without this kind of love will not be treating anyone properly. Jesus said to love your neighbor as you love yourself. If everyone in the world would practice love His way, there would be no war, divorce, or any other terrible thing that is the opposite of love.
2007-01-23 12:46:21 · answer #2 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Treating someone badly as a routine is not love!
A relationship goes through many ups and downs, that is part of the human element imposed on any relationship. There is friction because of the meeting, and often clashing, of the very different idiosyncrasies involved in a relationship. One cannot love and purposely inflict harm on the other person. Love is embracing the qualities and negative traits of your partner and making them work in favor of both of you. This involves patience, tolerance, understanding, stamina and a host of other positive qualities.
2007-01-23 12:03:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because 'love' was a term invented by men to ensure women stay loyal to them. Once the man knows that the women will accept only his genetic code, he will happily move onto another whilst claiming to 'love' his previous conquests. There are some exceptions to the rule, but on the whole, all women are deluded. Look at the multiple partners people have in a life time, love is false and it doesn't last, it is a word that brings 'closure' but actually has no real value.
2007-01-23 12:00:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A question like this one tells me you or someone you care about is being treated poorly by a guy. Not all guys are like that. You or your friends or family member (whomever this question refers to) is more than likely being used, and taken for granted. Hate to say it, but time to move on. The right person will come along, a person that will treat you the way a woman should be treated.
2007-01-23 12:00:05 · answer #5 · answered by Mr.L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong to make assumptions about all males mistreating women. It's pretty obvious that the partner you're talking of is not treating you right and no one should have to go through it. Get rid and take time out and you'll find the right person! :)
2007-01-23 11:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by redwhiteblack 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's true love, trust me - we, men, DO value it! Even though sometimes we think that showing a bit of not caring will make the girl fall more for us!!!
2007-01-23 11:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by guidikc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would appear that you have ben hurt by one that you love and you thought loved you, right". well even if you were hurt you cant think that all men are like this. i am a perfect example for you. i love my gf now as much as anyone could ever be loved, i have never hurt her and never wanted to. you are upset and that is leading you into the stereotype that all men are hurtful to there lovers. well you are wrong
2007-01-23 12:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by get er done 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mon girl...you should know better than that. All males are NOT created equal and we do NOT all disrespect women. Sounds to me that, if you feel this way, you're meeting the wrong men!
2007-01-23 12:00:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it,s mostly because we have different values. also we can,t go past our differences, what we do is ask a family member how to solve our probables, or we get help some were else.befor thing go to far.
2007-01-23 12:02:30 · answer #10 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on who you are asking. Some people show their love in different ways...Like me and my girlfriend...she likes telling me nice things like she loves me, cant waite to see me ..etc...But me I like doing things for her , like picking up after her..cooking for her...Maybe the one you love feels like he is showing you he loves you but what you want him to do isnt the same as how he expresses his love..So he is confused. I was and still am sometimes
2007-01-23 12:13:45 · answer #11 · answered by jobruce86 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋