why do people hate on you and say you will never amount to anything. The look at you say that you ain't hot but in a blink of an eye they got on what you got.
2007-01-23 03:50:39 · 12 answers · asked by BK's Finest Sexy Chick 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
It is an Evolutionary trait. We are designed to recognize our own from others, to keep our tribe safe. It has become a complex problem with us now because we are a global people. When we first became "human" we were nomadic and traveled in close nit extended family groups. It helped protect the tribe.
Now flash forward, to today and we still tend to affiliate ourselves with like types of people. Your in College look around at the clicks what do you notice, they are all more or less alike in either dress, color, or belief systems. We do this with out even realizing it. The way to dis rupt this activity is to present yourself as a positive member of the new group and don't let the immediate reaction to you allow to solidify.
I would also suggest that if you are going to school to get into criminal law you spell check your work, and not call yourself the s h i t. people also assume about us by the way we write, and the language we choose to use.
2007-01-23 04:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is a byproduct of fear. Actually you could define it as fear with a solution. For example. I hate heavy traffic. I fear that I will not get to where I am going on time or that I might get into an accident. I know that I could take another way to where I am going so I hate it.
A close relative to hate is jealousy.
2007-01-23 11:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by Bye Bye 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They are either jealous of you and/or insecure about themselves...Who cares what they wear or what they say and do, what makes one person stand out from another is their character and attitude and their having a negative one at that says even less about them...Peace:)
2007-01-23 12:01:36 · answer #3 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few reasons are ignorance, anger, misunderstandings, the stupid nature of humans, jealousy. There own deficiencies are projected onto others.
Yeah, also fear.
2007-01-23 11:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are very few pure emotions hate is NOT one of them. It is a complicated reaction to a situation that is affected by thoughts that are in turn affected by training and conditioning and experience and education and intelligence and logic and intuition.
but generally sepaking all hate can be traced back to a root emotion of fear, which is a pure emotion.
so something about you incites fear in them.
2007-01-23 11:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It all begins when we are children being raised. I believe that we act as our parents acted in our sight. In other words we are taught to hate by those around us.
2007-01-23 18:36:36 · answer #6 · answered by thpsnowman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most because of their own insecurities,some are jealous w/o giving them cause finding someone else to beat up on helps their ego,im not sure why unless they want to be like you and cant except who they are
2007-01-23 11:58:05 · answer #7 · answered by loveChrist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they have never amounted to anything and to boost themselves up, they put others down.
2007-01-23 11:53:43 · answer #8 · answered by coutterhill 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hate comes from fear. Hate is usually taught. Remember, it's not about you.
2007-01-23 11:54:49 · answer #9 · answered by Paulie D 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because they are angry and can't resolve they're anger without breaking stupid laws & stuff.
2007-01-23 11:58:48 · answer #10 · answered by elmechino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋