i have an old friend right...i had'nt seen her for about 2 yrs...she comes back and visits right and she told me that she is pregnant...she is only 16 yrs old...i was shoked when she told me......but she didnt tell me why this happened..and the next day my mom told me that the guy abused from her and that they took him to jail and got deported he was 17. so i was like wow thats so cool they took him to jail b cuz he wasnt sopouse to do that....so the next day she tells me the reall story....she begins telling me that she went to a friends 15. and that right when it finished they all went to a kick back....and that they were playing spin the bottle and that she needed to have sex with three guys.......and gues what???? SHE DID she dosent even knows who the father is..... but her mom dosent know she did this.
2007-01-23 03:41:55 · 17 answers · asked by liz 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
That hap´pens when you do things without thinking about consecuenses, poor boy, but when he was making love to your fifteen year old friend hes doesnt think about every action has a reaction, she get pregned, an he get deported. Maybe it was an abuse, maybe she was drunk, if they want to **** maybe they ocul use a condom. So the two of them are gulty an in a way, they will pay, I'm sorry about that baby because he will have a really bad mother.
Thart happens when we all forget about religion, morality, decence or good values. So take that lesson for you.
2007-01-23 04:04:53 · answer #1 · answered by Mike Ginecologo y Biolog Reprod 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh thats just horrible, I never heard of spin the bottle that way, Im 16 as well and when we play spin the bottle we just kiss, make out, or lap dance.
And her mom doesn't even know. Wow I just can't imagine the stress in the situation.
I think you should talk to her, see if she regrets what she did, and tell her that it was very wrong.
I just hope everything ends up ok
2007-01-23 05:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow!!!! Ummm.... All I can say is that if she is having the baby she needs to have a paternity test with all the guys that she slept with that night and go from there. Thats if she wants the father to be a part of the childs life or wants child support. Thats all I can think of. She needs to get tested for any STD's also. And if your worried about her ways of I guess you could say FUN then you should talk to her about it. She really needs to talk to her mom too. I hope everything goes O.K Take care!
2007-01-23 04:13:16 · answer #3 · answered by Andrea R 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure why? but i know that your friend need to stop doing what she is doing she have her whole live ahead of her getting pregnant can really mis up her live if she is not ready for it and also she can get hiv and not know she has it and give it to others she has plenty of time to have sex when she is married to the one that she love's
she need to be focuss on her school work for now and boys later. if i was you i would talk to her first and tell her what i said and if that doesn't work just leave her a long she is bad company. and for you stay in school focuse on those books. and also tell your friend to call all the boys that she slep with to come with her to take a dna test.it's not your place to tell her mom see if you can get her to tell her mom. and talk to there moms.about what happen.
2007-01-23 04:03:07 · answer #4 · answered by lady p 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok that is wrong. When I was reading about the abuse part I was thinking that the guy was wrong but having sex with three guys in one day??? That's just wrong. That guy can be marked as a sexual offender for the rest of his life. Someone I know spent 441 days in jail because someone lied about him. Lucky he was found innocent. But 441 days of his life is gone now!
2007-01-23 03:53:04 · answer #5 · answered by musicpanther67 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, from what I am getting she shouldnt play Spin the Bottle. She should of gotten out of the game and she needs to get a Paternity test to see who is the father.
(I am sure Maury would do, just kiddding)
2007-01-23 04:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by --; cookie. 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Encourage your friend to put her child up for adoption. It is obvious she is no where near ready to be a mom. She needs to tell her parents the truth.
2007-01-23 04:05:04 · answer #7 · answered by Bradley 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
things happen for a reason in life, if GOD wanted you to know about the whole story it is because he/she wants you to do the right thing and clear that guy's name, i don't see any guilt in him since both were minors, horniness is hard to control. tell your slut friend to tell the truth to her mother otherwise you will talk to her, "truth is more important than friendship".
2007-01-23 05:36:41 · answer #8 · answered by dhs 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok I dont see a question but she wasn't mean to the guys, its her fault stupid dare and she needs to tell her mother the truth and the 3 guys!
-Fredo
2007-01-23 08:54:41 · answer #9 · answered by Alaina 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hm....she's wack. its not abuse wut she got..she did it volenterally or threw peer pressure....she should really like tell her parents or even better....you could wear a wire...or just have a video camera hidden in ur room and ask her agian wut happened for real and then just show it to either her parents or the officer that handeled that case. cuz why let an innocent guy go to jail for a stoopididy and regret of an inmature irrisponsible idiotic just plain ol stupid girl? i see no justace in that. now idk if she would go to jail for lying or not because different states have different laws. but really do the right thing and idk turn her in. i for one would feel so much better knowing that i helped the real victim. but that just my opinion.
2007-01-23 05:17:30 · answer #10 · answered by LatinLoozer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋